THIS TIME NOT IN THE BOARD GAME THREAD
@Tinuviel said in TS - Danger zone:
@bored said in TS - Danger zone:
You've mentioned 'I can do this and you can't stop me' stuff including out of band communication.
Uh, no? No, I haven't. I only said that I don't take No-TS policies into account in my decision making. Others brought up other venues, not I.
Apologies if I got that wrong. Then again, I think its relevant and somewhat implicit to the 'people can circumvent your policies no matter what you do' argument. Staffers can spy on all in-game communication if they choose to, so they certainly can stop all TS on their server if they choose such an approach. Your basic premise fails if you don't include the back channel stuff.
@bored said in TS - Danger zone:
Plus, again, games with kids. There's no other choice there, right?
We aren't talking about games with kids. I've already made it clear that games with kids don't exist to me in so far as TS is concerned. And arguably, "no ts because kids" isn't a policy it's a law.
Who's we? I am. And it seems relevant, because nothing else changes. Kids can and will (with perhaps even greater likelihood) break your rules to do what they want, including sex stuff. They can get stalked and harassed (and its much more of a danger for them). I think pretending this case doesn't exist is an artificial way of tweaking the argument.
But I can even do without it: what about a game that just bans rape? People have rape kinks, and can and will RP it even if it's banned. Harassment will still ensue, perhaps with even greater prevalence. Some staffers may have related RL trauma and not want to deal with that material. Are they also required to allow it because 'you can't stop it?'
I want to poke at some of your wording again, just for a moment. You repeatedly say "cheater" when talking about people that violate this hypothetical policy, and that's inaccurate. Cheaters break the rules to gain an unfair advantage, and that should always be discouraged and punished.
People that violate an innocuous policy, and are then too reticent to comment on abuses suffered because they will be punished are not cheaters.
Eh .To me any player that looks at a policy and says 'nah, I'm the exception!' is automatically in a different category, because they have established a lack of respect for the space staff has created. I will acknowledge that there are different degrees and I would look at someone who sought mechanical advantage or other forms of in-game manipulation differently, but that doesn't equate in my mind that I should not treat these violations seriously.
My argument is, if it's an argument at all, that banning something doesn't eliminate it. It drives it underground where it can become dangerous to its participants. Yes, I agree, people should abide by policy. But even those that don't, without actually cheating (in terms of its actual definition), still deserve to feel safe enough to report it. If it goes unreported, who knows how many people are abused in the same fashion?
Most of this is a re-hash, but I will comment on the very last part since you haven't engaged with this part of my argument: the people who are following policy but also deal with harassment. Most serious offenders (ie not MUers being shit at communication) are multiple offenders (this is actually supported by RL research: I recall a study that found rapists each had something like six victims), so the likelihood of them surviving unnoticed is actually pretty low, because those compliant players will feel much more empowered and can highlight violations much more easily.
And yes, I understand that you don't want to spend your free time wading through the crap brought about by people you don't desire on your game in the first place. But when it comes to harrassment, it's not just a game anymore. MUers, people here in fact, have had their personal details accessed and leaked, in some cases their real lives invaded, due to the actions of abusers and harrassers. I'm glad that you take harrassment seriously, but I think you're seriously underestimating the potential impact of such harrassers and abusers when they know that their victims will be punished just like them if they're reported.
You say you the out of band argument isn't yours part of yours but you're bringing it up again here, right? This stuff gets serious when it violates the game boundaries, but inside the game boundaries are the only place where a staffer can meaningfully act. So again, I empathize, but again, this stuff doesn't really factor into MU policy for me.
A clear TS policy is required, yes. But not a blanket ban. It hurts more than it helps.
Any policy is equivalent insofar as people ignoring it as they please, whether a total ban, ban of particular acts, etc.