RL Anger -- making me upvote one of @WTFE 's posts.
J/K
If it looks like a troll, it posts like a troll, it needs attention like a troll - it must be a troll
Please don't feed the trolls
Since this can't go on MU things I like because I don't think I've ever RPed at any length with a lot of you.
I like @Auspice and @Ganymede for discussions here and letting me hit on them. It breaks up bad days.
I love @lordbelh and am just waiting (in the bushes) for him to love me back.
And you know everyone else too. Really, I tend to like everyone for the most part.
Disclaimer: I don't know these people RL but it's not MU either
If they are can you take video?
Asking for a friend
Also: My anxiety.
Normally, I don't like it and just tolerate it (like that ONE person in your family, you know the one). However, because I'm so anxious about this move and having a panic about thinking everything won't be done; I'm almost completely done packing everything I own two weeks early.
Some people just need to not.
I find this is true. I will state I am not a Trump supporter, but it's none of my business if anyone is. As well, he is our president, good/bad/or whatever. I don't agree with anyone reaming anyone because of their personal agendas or beliefs. I don't have to take my money places, you are allowed to take your money where you want. I may educate you in the reasons why I don't go there, just in case you do share a belief that's the same and didn't know.
And two different places and still berating? If this is online, there's an awesome block function. If this is RL, there's awesome foot transport.
Especially if you keep saying not to contact you. Anyone can love you when you're willing; true love is for when you're not. **
**Disclaimer: Obviously I don't believe this and am not contacting Apu
Worrying about everything for your move being packed in time. --- Done.
Realizing you have about two days and you are all packed, so what's next? SEVERE ANXIETY
It's where you question you are doing the right thing, you question everything, what if it's a huge fail, what if ....
One day I would like my brain to be as calm and laid back as I project IRL. Just once.
Learning there are LARP clan pins. I feel I now want these, not because I LARP (I don't) but I still think they are kinda cool.
I made it cross country! That means my car made it. Also, I forgot that the 'Heartland' is so green.
My rule of thumb (and it's mine - so not right, not wrong) is this:
If I think a person is mad-dogging someone. I tend to engage the person being looked at. If they don't want to talk that's fine and I'll go quiet. If a person is actually insulting/threatening a person, I speak up. If there is an act of violence, I assess. I am not a fighter and 5'2. I am not going to put myself where I become the victim to violence, but I will call for help and do what I can.
Is this right for everyone? No. It's not.
I can't just judge a look because I don't know what the person is thinking. What if the person is the ex of the other and the relationship is being rubbed in their face? What if they said something insulting?
What I am saying is that all the corruption and all the violation of civil rights comes down to 'not me' and good people doing nothing. I am not in a large demographic that is targeted beyond my gender which is bad enough. However, just because I'm not in that demographic doesn't mean I don't use my voice to help them. Not to start 'that argument' but there is white privilege and there is hetero privilege. If you don't believe in either, maybe you don't live in the US. I have never heard something stupid referred to as 'that's so hetero'. So while I cannot change the course of this overnight, I can use what voice I have to speak for those that cannot. People will listen more to me because I was born with blue eyes, pale skin and blonde hair. So when I talk, I make it a point that my words are to empower those that are being pushed down by the rights I received (and they did not) merely because of birth.
IF we all started just being good to each other, there would be so much more grace and love around us. You get what you sow. I say hi to everyone on a bus I sit by. I respect if they want their silence, but what if they hadn't talked to someone and they just need a hello or a smile? Is that too much time to take from my iphone game or the music in my ears? If they want to engage in conversation, I'll respect that too. We might learn that we are not an island in a sea of people, but we are social beings in a society of strangers that need not be so strange to us.
If more people spoke up because it's wrong to deny civil rights to a part of the population based on things they have no control over, maybe there wouldn't be hate crimes. Maybe people would not be afraid to admit who they are inside and allow it to reflect on the outside.
TL;DR - Make love not war -- Also No, I am never going to stand by and agree with someone that we should do nothing because it 'doesn't concern us'. If it involves another person being hurt or repressed; it damn well SHOULD concern us. If it doesn't, it might soon also be us.
Steps off her soapbox - sorry
@Thenomain said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:
@Catsmeow said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:
Sex
Psshh, I wish.
Well.. come visit-- erm -- I mean I'm sure you could.
I'm sorry. Really I'm always sorry when someone lets someone else down. I hope it works out one way or another. Sorry it has to suck until it doesn't.
Sleep and water are HUGE factors. HUGE.
I drink water, I walk 4-6 miles daily, but I have issues sleeping and staying asleep. It messes with a lot of things and makes your body just over tired all the time
Still more yay you!
Tattoo!!
I got my first one tonight and my sister got one too. This is super huge as we haven't been close for so many years. It was her first one and we got the same thing (but altered colors) and the same location.
Also, the pain wasn't as bad as I thought.
@tragedyjones said in RL things I love:
@Scorn She actually has a lion cut because she was all matted when she got to the shelter so she looks like a weird murder lion kitten,
THIS makes me love her more.