@hobos said in Observation:
I can't really make a post without taking a stab at a solution though, so how about... we try not to care if anyone tracks us down, and let our current behavior stand for itself if anyone does figure us out, because all that will do is let us know who our friends are... and we try to legitimately have better current behavior -- including being as actually fair as our theoretical code demands, when push come to shove?
Or we could not.
Personally, I'm not playing anywhere. It's kind of a bummer. I'm just too damned busy with life to actually devote hours and hours and hours of my time to a character that may or may not ever get accepted because I may or may not click with the 'in' group.
But I'm certainly not going to demand that people who are playing somewhere and have found that group (the MU equivalent of winning the lottery for many of the people that are still around here) out themselves just so that readers have some entertainment value. Especially not for people who themselves aren't posting the same content.
As far as being better or worse than other people? Opinions differ. I don't think any of us are saying that. I think that a lot of us have said that it's a better environment without certain voices, which is a different thing.
@Warma-Sheen said in Observation:
But also the "MU" in MU Soapbox seems to be conspicuously absent.
That's true. A lot of us aren't playing. We're getting older, we have more responsibilities, our fatigue with trying to appease certain groups grows by the day. But some people are still playing.
If you're playing somewhere, you could always post about that. I'm sure that there are plenty of readers out there that would like to see it. They may feel emboldened to do so themselves. Others don't, for the reasons noted above. It's just a kind of sad reality of an aging and fractured base.
But this forum isn't JUST for MUs. It hasn't been for basically the entire time it's existed. It's so that friends who have known each other for ages and ages have a place to come, check in, communicate about the things that are going on, vent frustrations, support each other, etc. MU is the thing that brought us all together, but it isn't the reason that we persist as a friend group.