@faraday said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:
I think that's very different from guilt tripping your kids into thinking they owe you something for raising them.
Well, sure. I'm Catholic.
But, as I said elsewhere, context is important. I tell my kids how lucky they are and I also tell them that if any of their friends don't come to school with a lunch that they are allowed to share theirs and if they do they will get double dessert at home. I tell them how they should share with others because they are so fortunate.
Of course, I also tell them that I can and will take it all away if they end up being little shits.
As far as I'm concerned, I would never guilt-trip my kids. Why the fuck would I do that? It is my job to raise them to be independent, productive members of society. And once they are out of the house and on their own, then I can enter another phase of my life. Guilt-tripping requires connection, and connection requires contact.
On a side note, on parenting, Denzel got robbed.