I am late to the discussion, but fear not! I have suitably horrific comments to add involving everyone's favorite topic: TS.
Losing social combat and following it up with TS (FTB, I am not a HUGE monster (I mean, unless both parties are into rape play, which is weird and as oxymoronic as the idea of consensual rape sounds, I'm not one to judge)) is as great a gift as the time that football jock in high school lied about his date putting out that one time.
YOU can change the narrative!
Maybe they curled into a fetal ball afterwords? Maybe they cried the whole time and called you mommy. Maybe they could only get it up after you put peanut butter on their nipples.
And if you have a high enough subterfuge pool, people will believe you! Put your Investigate dice to good use, find OTHER PCs who have similarly been social-fu'd into actions, and now you have others to corroborate your story. RealTruth, even if it is a dirty lie.
The idea of everyone having perfect agency is absurd. You will only have perfect agency when you play by yourself. The second you add other players to the mix, anything goes. We often say things like 'no, I didn't mean it that way, text doesn't convey intent well' because the default tone we give people somehow magically lands in sarcasm.
So I propose we extend this to social interaction.
If 'movie logic' is good enough for shooting... good enough for first aid/doctoring... good enough for driving, or mechanics, or literally anything else? Well by God, it's good enough for socializing.
How many movies have you watched where... Bond picks someone up with the cheesiest one-liner you've ever heard? Luke Cage asks if folks want coffee. Just stare at a person and go 'No, don't fall for that'... but they do?
I GIVE TO YOU SOCIAL COMBAT.
True, there is body language and tone inflection and all other manner of variables. But how can I pose body language to you when 'No writing a novel in your poses, go dialogue go!', or how can I attempt to interpret YOUR body language and respond when I get 'Bob laughs. "Words words words," he says, before drinking some more whiskey. "Words speak time more here."' and nothing else?