@2mspris Totally. Completely. Understand.
@mietze That's true, those statements will bite you in the ass. I do think if your kid throws a fit, as long as you're doing the best you can and removing your kid or making them stop, you're fine. And not making them stop by continuing to shop while going 'please be quiet, no stop sweetie'. Actual making it stop.
I recognize that I have one kid and that has it's advantages. She's with me most of the time, I'm a single mom and she's almost 6. Some days, I feel like I cheated the system. I'm totally ok with this. My cousin was going on about what is she going to do with the baby, where will she sleep when she's born, how is she going to work with her schedule and her husbands and they have her daughter from a previous man and his son part time and I just think....man...while at times I wish I had someone to catch the slack, someone to help, someone to be there, I'm glad I raised my baby by myself because I didn't have to deal with any of that. No one woke my baby being loud or stupid. No one disrupted our schedule. I really had it easy.