@ganymede The best example I can think of is actually one from RL.
When I was... nine or so? Before boys (or girls) were even a second thought ever and the very idea of kissing was still super duper gross, the folks sent me to a snobby all girls school. The older sister of a friend of mine went there, and her parents spoke of it highly. She thought it would be the funniest joke ever to write a note to another girl in my class, telling her I wanted to see her naked, and sign my name to it, during the first week I was there.
You can guess how many people wanted to talk to me -- ever -- in the two years I attended that school. This included the teachers, and the counselors I was sent to to 'fix my unholy deviance'.
This kind of mean girl bullshit is pretty commonplace on games to this day -- which isn't even high school drama, it's gradeschool drama. It's not as troublesome as it is RL, obviously! But it's pretty commonplace, and we need to do a much better job, as a community, of standing up to it.