@Jeshin said:
I think that Crayon (and some of the other OR staff) just question my insistence in dedicating time to musoapbox. Compared to every other community we have approached for advertising this one is by far the most "hostile" or at least the most suspicious.
I imagine you are used to communities on which sharing is their goal.
Not here. At Aperture Science Soapbox, we are a hotbed of debate. Most of us don't care if you can defend yourself because most of us realize that this doesn't really matter.
We are old hobbyists in the realm of make-believe. Who would take this seriously? Not us. (Note: Unless we're taking it seriously, in which case someone else makes fun of that person and all is well and good in the land.)
As for engagement, as community lead he is supposed to engage with you guys.
I dunno, he's calling us names now thereby helping me form a more specific theory that Mudders and Mushers are pretty much the same everywhere.
As to hostility, chest-beating, and elitism. I (for some reason) was accused of being snobbish or looking down on the community early in this thread
If I accused you of being elitist, I apologize. I can't remember at this point, and I would have been absolutely wrong.
@crayon said:
There's a lot of hostility, chest-beating, and elitism going around
Hold on, I think I ... hm, yeah, sec...
@Thenomain said:
I would like to point out, right now, that "a pretty extreme MUSH perspective" is the kind of reason I don't like these discussions. I work pretty hard not to cast stereotypes even when I'm talking with my Mocking Voice. Look into the broader world to find examples of behavior.
Yeah, I'm going to say I called it.
@Thenomain said:
I would be tilting at windmills.
Whether you choose to tilt at windmills in a place in which you feel comfortable and secure, or elsewhere, you're still tilting at windmills.
You missed the rest of that paragraph. Heck, second time in your post that you responded not to the criticisms but to say "no, you". You may be throwing around epithets to the posting culture here, but I'll be the first to say it: One Of Us.
@Thenomain said:
It has an application process that I believe to be ridiculous and not at all representative of quality RP.
We're not looking to define quality roleplay so much as collect a group of similar games that happen to have quality RP.
Let me quote your mission statement, home page, first thing people see:
Optional Realities is dedicated to all text-based role-playing games of this nature [being RPIs].
Emphasis mine. There is no, repeat no indication on the connections page what the criteria are, but if they are not "all RPIs" then you're misleading—probably unintentionally—the community you're trying to form. If as you say here the goal of OR is to "play with people like us" then say that.
Please stop burning straw men, they can't fight back, you know.
Please stop cherry-picking your arguments to make your perceived opponent look bad. Also, the twee isn't helping the "finding common ground" part, if you're interested in one.