I understand the theme of these forums and I know that most people here wouldn’t be interested in a game like Armageddon. It’s not against the rules to advertise a Mud here. So I posted not for the “How dare you post a Mud here! This is our forum!” people, I posted for the people that might say “Hm...that could be interesting.” I know it’s not an easy game to play and that might not appeal to everybody that visits. But it might appeal to some.
My intention wasn’t to marginalize people that have had something they didn’t like happen to their characters either. My intention was simply to say if you do make an ooc mistake, it IS ok to say “I didn’t know I wasn’t supposed to say that”. You are able to say I made a mistake and people would take that at face value that you DID make a mistake. I see people do that all the time now. That seems to be a big concern and understandably so. If you don’t know something you can ask while you’re playing. If you’re curious about something in the world or a command you can ask that too.
What I was trying to get across is: Some people won’t break character to show you the right thing to do or say. That’s one of the essentials of good story telling right? Show don’t tell. I know it can feel like it’s a personal affront to you the player, but most people aren’t doing it to make you feel bad or silly or haze newbies. Give it a chance because it might lead you somewhere good.
The Templar you pissed off by not paying the respect you were supposed to show, could lead you into a plot against the same Templar. So your newbie mistake pulled you into an active plot. So try not to say, “I’m new, I didn’t know...” go with it and see where it takes you.