@Sunny said:
@ThugHeaven said:
Let me just say as a player of both rpi MUDs and mushes, both communities are equally dismissive of each other. There really might not be a common ground between the two. From what I've seen in this thread, certain points were brought up and weren't really addressed and hostility, passive or naked emerged.
It makes me wonder, why continue to post or update a thread where you're greeted with such opposition? I don't think being all "come at me bro" is going to be that conducive either. This is a derivative of the Snark/Wora board, but I think the questions and points brought up in the beginning were very genuine and were ignored...which brought on the reaction you have now.
So I'm also wondering, if you don't want to discuss what you're advertising and seeing how well it's going, why do it?
This sums it up very well, I think.
These interactions have been incredibly frustrating even to read, with the condescension, the assumptions, peoples' points being either dismissed out of hand as trolling when they were genuine questions or just straight up ignored (the assumption when this happens is that you simply have no answer for the question, or that you're cherry picking what to respond to to try and come off better), the defensiveness, and the continued statement that people are interested in engaging while completely refusing to do so (and that would be what the hell you're all lying about). Telling us how it is is not engaging, it's not dialogue, it's nothing but preaching to a bunch of atheists -- annoying as fuck. It's frustrating enough that it actually makes me angry with the now three of you. To say @Thenomain is just trolling...holy shit. If I could reach through the computer and slap you, I would.
Y'all can keep advertising here. We can keep rolling our eyes. Folks around here (@Thenomain and @surreality in particular, but it's not limited to them) have shown FAR more respect for OR than the representatives have shown the community they are coming in to advertise in. If you don't like us and think we're a bunch of asshole trolls, GO AWAY.
ETA: The thing that y'all seem to be missing is that this is a community that is of value to those of us that participate in it. It's not at all just a trolling/flame board, it's not about bitching, it's not about a lot of the things that the various forums have been about over the years. This is a good community with good people that contribute A LOT to one another, so the whole 'reaching out a hand to the savages' thing -- and yes, that's how a lot of this comes across you fucking pricks -- is beyond irritating.
Edited to add again: This is the MSB crowd's living room. To my knowledge, nobody's gone over there to troll / harass, AND YET you guys keep coming over here to do that to this community. You lose all credibility in that action.
Well, I don't think they're getting the idea that the way they've presented themselves was wrong and that is a little...odd. Which is one of the bones of contention. It feels a little like someone coming into your house and saying, my house is better here's why..." Then being all "Why u mad, son?"
The way I see it, the break down happened when ideas were put forth that rpi's are somehow vastly different than mushes because of permadeath, no ooc channel, auto combat, mushes being some sort of free form game where things that happen are all purely consensual. In other words, many mushes DO fit the criteria put forth. I think that's what Thenomain was trying to get across in the beginning.
I think what has to happen for this to move forward in a productive manner is to start looking at the commonalities both games have, which are many. Leave the air of "mushes aren't hardcore" or "mudders aren't serious rp'ers" behind.
But again, I really don't think it's possible for people to do that so....here we are.