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    Posts made by Too Old For This

    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @wretched So much this. My cleaning schedule is sporadic and haphazard. My budget is usually a tangle of creatively moving funds around between accounts to ensure everything gets covered. Remembering appointments is a nightmare as I'm either an hour+ early or forget it entirely.

      But when my mom sliced her arm open installing storm windows, I was on the phone with 911 and letting them know what happened and where to go while applying a tourniquet to her arm... at 13. When she had to be rushed to the hospital two years later for ruptured ovarian cysts, same deal... packed her into the car and looked up the best way to get to the hospital and drove her down on my learner's permit.

      Emergency situations are so much easier to deal with, requiring quick, decisive action for a relative short amount of time. Its one of the few times my body can keep up with my brain as the adrenaline dump lets me act at the speed of my thoughts.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @greenflashlight All that. Yes. Normally I would be exhausted but exhilarated at getting things done and jazzed up mentally. Now? I've begged off RP and flat out missed events because going to do the dishes took so much out of me I fell asleep.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      Not quite ADHD but along the same vein... I got COVID early last year. I've since had issues with sleep and with fatigue. Constant, ugly, fatigue. Then I got the new mutated COVID this year (because I have apparently drawn the fucking powerball of illnesses), and the fatigue has now gotten even worse. I am now having to battle my employer while trying to get my doctor to diagnose my Chronic Fatigue Disorder. They don't like hearing that I'm not at work 'because I'm tired'. They don't understand that this isn't just tired. This is... I can sleep 12 hours in a day and STILL feel exhausted to the point where I will drop off to sleep in the middle of the day for a four hour nap, then wake up tired, then sleep another 5-6 hours overnight and still be exhausted. My daily household tasks are falling farther and farther behind because I can barely stay upright long enough to cook a meal let alone sweep my kitchen floor or do the pots & pans. Hell, at this point I can barely drag my ass into the shower to be presentable. I want to do my job, I want to not feel like this, but I also want to not risk passing the fuck out for 3-4 hours in the middle of my shift because I finally hit a break and sat still for more than a minute.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      Or the person cooking could just... cook. And let the person not cooking enjoy a well-earned respite from anything cooking-adjacent.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @ominous I appreciate the heads up, but Carhartt is more expensive than I can generally afford for a pair of jeans.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @wretched All of these, so much. I'm struggling extra hard with 1, 2, 4, and 6 right now because I'm sick. So everything has been amplified, because even though I'm sick I feel like I should be doing more. Those dishes should have been washed two days ago. The floor needed vacuuming but standing up hurts right now. I'm sleeping when I know I should be doing laundry but I can't seem to do anything but sit at my PC until the pain drives me back to bed.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @ganymede This is true. Levi carpenter jeans can size differently from their normal 501s. Wrangler has weirdly been the most consistent.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Tell me what you want -- work edition

      I work for a company who sends almost daily emails about the 'resources' available to us and how 'we're all in this together' and videos from upper management that's being taken outdoors from their vacation home on Lake Tahoe or their 6 bedroom flat near DC. People who want to tell us how 'proud' they are of us for all of our work and how they 'understand' how difficult this is for us. And then they go on to congratulate other upper management for their efforts and innovations without ever acknowledging, let alone addressing, the people on the phones. We had a meeting with two of our upper management about two months ago. They both claimed that we could 'email them anytime' and talked up how they'd been responding to people. I have yet to receive a response to my email. Not even an acknowledgement of having received it and reviewing it for follow-up at a later date.

      If I call out more than two days in a row, I'm supposed to contact HR to look into starting an STD or FMLA claim. Only there's no general email or phone number for our HR department, and the person that handled my last claim has since left the company. I was never informed who, if anyone, took her place. I just received an 'inconclusive' result from my rapid response COVID test this morning, and have been informed by my doctor to treat it as a 'positive' result until the sendoff results come back. I've gotten no direction or assistance from HR or management on how they want me to proceed.

      Oh, and this past year, I was expected to use my own personal time, off the clock, to finish my PMP (the self-assessment metric by which my yearly raise/bonus is determined). They insisted we finish them over the holiday week, that we were working full schedules, and we were schedule 30 minutes to complete an assessment of a year's worth of metric scores and our belief on why we should get scored a certain number, and why we deserve that number. This was on a completely new system that they gave us an additional 30 minutes off the phones to learn.

      The resources available to us are only to be accessed 'on our time'. Meaning we have to SCHEDULE time off, using our precious PTO to actually access the resources they are trying to pat themselves on the back for providing. My 'office' has been my bedroom, home office, and workplace since March of last year. I have no additional space to put either computer anywhere else. I have lived in a 13x13 room for nearly a year. But yes, 'we're all in this together'. Sure. I make a fraction of what they do, my tax return this year will be pitiful because I got two stimulus checks. But 'we're all in this together'. My job is in danger if I can't get my doctor to send in notice that I'm to stay at home, resting, for the next week. But hey, 'we're all in this together'!

      Don't do this. Any of it. Communicate, clearly, even if its not what people want to hear. Be honest, even if what you have to tell them isn't good news. Provide your people with leeway in a difficult situation. Have their backs. And for the love of God, please don't push the party line. Don't tell your people 'we're all in this together'. Because that implies a level of equality that simply doesn't exist between different levels of employees. And we know it.

      Be up front. Be honest. Don't let your people 'slip through the cracks'. Make sure they are getting heard, and make sure they get the follow-up they deserve.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @wildbaboons My 17 year old has a 36" waist with a 32" inseam. I cannot tell you how many times he's ended up in a 34/30 or 38/32 or some variation thereof because apparently each brand gets to decide how long an 'inch' actually is. And lets not get into the shirt sizes which range from Medium to X-Large because apparently even men are now supposed to just be tiny twigs with no shoulders.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Dead Celebrities 2021 Edition

      @tnp said in Dead Celebrities 2021 Edition:

      Cloris Leachman

      GODDAMMIT >:|

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @nyctophiliac YES. Trying to shop through Amazon this last year has been PAINFUL. Buying eight things just to send seven of them back because I can't stand the way they feel or the fit is 'wrong'. Clothes shopping was always a nightmare, but doubly so now that I can't just go to the store and touch everything to find out what's okay. The skinny jeans trend made me straight up cry because its one of my 'never wear this ever' things.

      Sadly, most of my 'comfort zone' clothes actually fall into men's clothing, because they use common sense when making them.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Tell me what you want -- work edition

      @silverfox My son's school is actually going to have one when in-school teaching resumes in Feb. An emotional support dog who will be kept in a specific area (so kids with allergies or fears won't be put in his sphere) and kids that just need a few minutes can go cuddle a dog.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @nyctophiliac Yes. Yes absolutely. I cannot wear wool, no matter how 'soft' it is, it feels like a brillo pad to me. I tend to buy shirts that are pre-washed because that 'new shirt' stiffness irritates me. I have refused to wear tapered leg jeans for decades because it bothers me to have the excess fabric scrunched up around my ankles. If a tag is out I must must flip it in, having it against the back of my neck is unacceptable. There are more. SO many more. Soft washed cotton and chenille are about the only two things I know for certain I can tolerate at any time.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @tinuviel I will stay up here in icy, snowy, no snake land. And toast you with my coffee and crackling fire.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @insomniac7809 Agreed! I hate surveys of any sort for an application. If you want me to go through a personality profile, please do so after you've whittled down the number of applicants so you can pay a licensed person to conduct an actual personality profile and not just these stupid surveys that everyone fakes through anyways.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @insomniac7809 What truly sucks is that all these metrics they run these tests off of? They're based on jobs for a MUCH higher qualification level. So when the question was written, it was intended for someone with a big degree looking to take on a position with a high degree of responsibility and authority. But they c/p them wholesale for shit like phone reps and retail workers.

      I am always tempted to write in a response and circle it to the effect of 'B**** I need a job to pay my bills, THAT is the highest goal in life!'

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves)

      @wretched said in The ADD/ADHD Thread (cont'd from Peeves):

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      Double this when the 'hi' comes in text form and you're overanalyzing if they used or didn't use capitalization or punctuation because both will change the tone of the message to you.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Dead Celebrities 2021 Edition

      @rinel said in Dead Celebrities 2021 Edition:

      Larry King has died at 87.

      May his memory be a blessing.

      Daaaaaaaaaaamn. The 'rona got Larry. Rest in peace, man!

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @tinuviel I don't know, man, spontaneous testicle bursting HAS to be a record of some kind.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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