@too-old-for-this said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:
I have absolutely been hanging out in public with a boyfriend and pointed to a woman and gone 'godDAMN that woman is hot'... much to their general confusion, because I haven't otherwise ever indicated a desire for women.
That usually spirals into a discussion on how I can find women very attractive without it being my normal proclivity.
My observations of this - there is a difference between finding somebody attractive and being attracted to them.
Speaking as someone who is asexual, I find a lot of people attractive, but I have zero desire to actually smush body parts with them.