Apr 28, 2017, 5:25 PM

What's wrong with staff saying "Clearly you've put thought into this and we respect that but it's not a direction the game is going to go, no matter what you roll, by our choice?"

There's no need to do weird contortions to justify it, just say "We don't want that within the scope of the game."

Will some players get huffy or feel constrained? Yes. Would they have probably found something else to bitch about? Yes. Is it unreasonable for players to have the expectation that they have truly free reign without boundaries to change anything at all in the game environment whenever they wish to start rolling for it or because they want to? Yes. Has our community coddled this a bit by letting people down easy, throwing down false mechanical barriers, and deflecting the question so as not to cause a fit? Yes.

As to course corrections player to player--unless you have a cordial ooc relationship with that player or they ask you point blank...don't. Do not offer unsolicited advice. It will likely be received in the same manner that you'd feel where they to tell YOU how to play (their way) on the same game. Limit your play with them if you truly can't stand it.

If staff doesn't notice flagrant violations of theme in their presence or promotes that player despite their obvious lack of interest in the theme ooc and sloppy attention to what other people are doing--then honestly the problem is not the player. It's the staff. Don't blame a player for destroying theme immersion that the staff is unwilling or unable to deal with.