@Thenomain said in Do you believe in paranormal things?:
And yeah, accusing your devil's advocacy as mentally unstable is mostly my frustration, because you do it preeeetttty much any time you disagree with something. Now you're trying to get me to come up with the evidence that you can openly dispute. If you want to be fair on this (i.e., not a devil's advocate), then do the same thing.
I'll start with this part if you don't mind.
I don't mind attacks (which, frustration-inspired or not, that was); this is an internet forum after all and we all get flamed eventually, some of us more than others. But it seemed out of the blue to get personal about an issue I was trying to remain patient myself while dealing with someone who was, in this thread, wishing people to get cancer and treat them as respectfully as I could.
It also crossed a line - we've all hanged out enough around here to be peeved by each other now and then but certain escalations seemed rather unnecessary. It's like shooting the shit with the regulars at the hobby store, making fun of each other's fashion sense or taste in movies or whatever then someone goes way off the charts and insults the other's job or choice in partners. ("Yeah but you're in a dead-end job and your husband is probably cheating on you, you ... Trekkie!").
Think about it man, in the whole thread this made you salty enough but not the part someone was wishing people got cancer? What gives?
@Arkandel
Let me turn around what you're doing:
Prove to me that my statement is wrong. Clearly you think it is. While I come up with my evidence, you come up with yours. This is what debate is for, not just one person saying, "That's interesting, but I think you're wrong, so convince me," without the other side doing the same.
And you would have been completely right if I had come out of the blue and asked someone that question. But I didn't, and in fact in this whole thread I didn't challenge anyone else, some of whom have posted about strange experiences of their own, to prove that it actually happened. However I did after this bit:
Talk to me about being open minded after you've spent over a decade researching this stuff in depth.
Part of the scientific method (I'm getting tired of typing that by now) involves communicating one's findings. Someone claimed to have done a lot of research on a topic which they deemed I couldn't understand or be open minded about, so I requested to see their results so we could find out.
I believe at best you could say my demand was out of place - I don't get to demand that, that'd be true - but devil's advocacy it was not.