@Cupcake said in When To Stop Listening To Those Voices:
Our game culture abhors attention-seekers and rightfully so. That kind of play style is selfish.
I don't think these are accurate statements.
I think our game culture abhors attention-seekers who hog the spotlight to the detriment of others. I think our game culture craves attention-seekers who use the attention to facilitate the RP of others.
Players tend to gravitate towards the players who can spontaneously-generate RP through their own characters because, for the most part, it's easier to be receptive than creative. But it's very hard for me not to see creative-scions, who are the hub of RP, as being anything but attention-seeking.
Our game culture hates assholes and degenerates. It venerates creatives and humorists. And, in my opinion, these are all "attention-seekers" in one way or another.
By saying this, I mean to encourage the sort of attention-grabbing creativity, rather than cause these creatives to stop and reconsider whether they are creating too much.