@ShelBeast said:
I think that we male gamers (or us male, white, hetero gamers) need to grow the fuck up, most of the time with these attitudes.
I think you male, white, hetero gamers should start doing this by actively calling out shitheads like this.
While I realize a good number of male, white, hetero gamers are broken due to circumstances beyond their control, we expect children and young adults to behave better. Just because you elect not to use proper hygiene or socialization techniques does not relieve you of the obligation to obey social order, as dictated by law. Escaping to fantasy realms does not mean you can employ a fantasy realm's rules to reality.
I have caught wind of and seen bad behavior, and it was all I could do to not put my foot down on someone's neck for it. Thankfully, he apologized profusely after I kicked the chair out from under him.