@bobotron said in Social 'Combat': the hill I will die on (because I took 0 things for physical combat):
Let's leave aside 'completely ridiculous argument' because I don't think anyone is going to reasonably argue that 'Hey baby, wanna fuck? +roll' is a valid instigator for Social Conflict.
Let's not.
Because the reason I dislike PVP Social Combat is because I have seen, repeatedly, that. Slightly different words, nothing more substantial then a single pose of a few words and someone rolling a social stat and demanding my character react accordingly.
Its not even infrequent. Maybe its not seduction, maybe its manipulation. You raise completely nonsensical arguments about how people believe these vast conspiracies and crazy things, which are true, but we believe those things because of extremely long, dedicated efforts to convince people of an unreality.
It took Fox News years to convince people that facts weren't facts; and now that they have, they're suffering from not being facts too. But it doesn't happen in just a roll.
You are missing the key point.
If someone wants to back up a convincing argument with a roll, I'm fully willing to take into account that roll, but its not an absolute. If my character agency and his particular nuances are not a factor in outcome, only rolls, in his behavior, then whatever. You can argue all you want, we'll never agree; your game has no interest with me.
Social is more nuanced then 'can aim and fire a gun'. Social involves a lot of particulars. I've had more then one woman or utterly incompatible character try to seduce a gay character of mine in the past: I'm not joking, not making euphemisms. I've had a lady roll seduction on my queer ass.
History matters, in social. How you grew up. The particulars of what makes you angry, not; safe, not. A gun is a really simple thing. You aim it and shoot it and someone else dodges or armor takes it. Comparing Social to Combat is, frankly, daft, in my opinion.
But that doesn't mean social isn't important. Its just not important in some games: particularly, PVP heavy games. I personally prefer strongly to play PVE type games, where social is a thing you target at NPCS, and where even combat is actually rare to target other PCs.