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    Best posts made by Kestrel

    • RE: Intersectional MU* Community - Discussion

      @Pandora said in Intersectional MU* Community:

      How will your community handle the members that don't admit to biases regarding sex, nationality, health, or income,

      We don't have any members (currently) that don't admit to having these biases. We're a small bunch so far (we just hit 11 members), but everyone up until now seems to have joined with the understanding that they're imperfect and not looking to claim otherwise, but looking to do better and support each other.

      but are still raging assholes? Is it still a safe space if people are snide, two-faced, or judgmental, but not based on any factors other than the other person's personality?

      I mean, you know me, and I can be like this, but I ask that at least within this server people leave that at the door. No one's perfect, contentious drama happens, but this community just isn't the place for it.

      We currently have the following rules for our Discord server.

      Judgement in particular I'm not cool with. It's not the place for purity testing. See rule #2. People need to be able to engage conversations in good faith to be in this community. That means both listening earnestly when someone's speaking about their experiences, and being patient with people making honest mistakes. The referral system exists to try and keep out trolls and ensure this remains possible.

      If people use this community as a tool to harass, manipulate, control or BS other players, they'll just be shown the door. Regardless of anything else I have no tolerance for mind-games.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      There is one thing I liked about the finale.

      My favourite character survived.

      ***=Spoiler***

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      Sorry 👻 fans but Drogon is the goodest boi

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: How important is it to be 'needed'?

      Extremely. Basically critical.

      If I don't feel like my character is "needed" I immediately lose interest in them. I don't think this is very normal in that I see lots of people wanting to make the same generic good-looking vampire/noblelady etc. as everyone else on most games, but that's how I feel about it.

      It's not just about being "needed" by other people; I want to feel like I'm filling in a niche role and helping to balance the demographic, sure, but I also want to feel ... special? Original. While I realise there's no new idea under the sun, when I come up with a character concept I like to think it's the greatest idea anyone's ever come up with and when I then roll in to discover there are ten others exactly like me, I get bummed out.

      Private confession time: on the 100 MUSH, I rolled an Earth Skills nerd and when I realised @GirlCalledBlu had actually beaten me to it I almost wanted to reroll. This is of course not her fault at all, just a quirk of mine. I have a need to be the only one doing a certain thing, but I was able to carve out my own niche in other ways, despite that.

      This is part of the reason why I usually like playing underdogs, 90lb weaklings, less conventionally attractive characters, older/mature characters, poor people, etc.

      I didn't play Arx for very long (not because I don't think it's a very good game, it just wasn't my theme of choice) but when I did I specifically went for a commoner. I like being a foil for others and don't really see the appeal of playing a lord in a game where you can't actually lord over anyone, since everyone else is a lord/lady too.

      When rolling into a new game I tend to ask staff/players what type of character they think is currently "needed". Although I think it's very kind of them to do so, I always get a little bit annoyed when someone tells me "just play what you like to play!" Because what I like to play is, in fact, whatever happens to be most needed at any given point.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      @Arkandel said in Game of Thrones:

      ***=Perhaps, but then again your favorite character***

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      destroyed the furniture the moment his mother wasn't around. BAD dragon.

      ***=Yes, but s/he did that because***

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      If mummy can't have the stupid chair nobody can!

      They did the feels on that dragon really well tbh, it was good CGI.

      I hope Drogon's actor wins an Emmy for that performance.

      In all seriousness, I predicted the show would end with the Iron Throne being destroyed.

      I just didn't predict they would then elect a new King five minutes later, making the entire act meaningless. I thought Daenerys would do this as a conscious decision to end the feudal system, i.e. "breaking the wheel" ... which would have been a much better story. 😐

      When people spoiled the ending weeks in advance, about Bran being crowned king, I thought it was a joke ... 🤦🏼‍♀️

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Do you care about other people's music?

      @Rinel said in Do you care about other people's music?:

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      I like this game!

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      Can't fit all of them on here obvs.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Game of Thrones

      ***Why this season was awful, viewed through a lens of real world understanding of war, politics and violence.***

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      In war, people do terrible things. Full disclosure, I am Israeli, and yes, I have heard people justifying civilian deaths. There were parts of Daenerys' final speech that hit home because I'd heard fragments of it before in a real world context, said by close friends and relatives.

      But to turn her into a cartoon villain, a raving genocidal lunatic, was not only extremely unnecessary, cheap, and a gross departure from her character — it was a very shallow critique of war.

      George R. R. Martin has never written stories about good guys vs. baddies. With few exceptions (White Walkers), he has always done his best to show us the humanity behind every atrocity, and sought to explore moral quandaries with nuance and complexity. What Daenerys did in episode 5 wasn't human.

      In war, people do terrible things, yes, but they do those things because they believe they're necessary. Israel doesn't bomb civilians for the hell of it, they do it because they believe the cost of "enemy" civilian life is worth it if it means taking out one key target, i.e. a terrorist, who's a threat to Israeli civilian life. And this is terrible, and I don't agree, but the thing is there are people who do agree and support it, especially if they have been on the front lines themselves, or have suffered attacks or know someone who has. And whether or not you agree, you can as a minimum empathise with why they hold this belief, the pain and anger that drives them. War is not only terrible, it is complex.

      If Daenerys had burned civilians in the Red Keep on her path to Cersei, lost control of her dragon, or unwittingly set off the wildfire that her father had buried under key parts of the city, that would've been a much more compelling story. In the latter case I wouldn't have even minded if she'd chosen to justify/rationalise the destruction of King's Landing after accidentally destroying it rather than allowing herself to feel guilt or be seen as weak for apologising.

      I'd detected a certain critique of American jingoism in her speech when she was talking about "liberating" the world, that would have been worth exploring if she had done something more firmly in the darker shades of grey, e.g. uncaringly burning civilians on her path to take out the foreign dictator, Cersei, and then delivered this speech to the traumatised survivors of King's Landing.

      Instead they chose to simplify things by effectively drawing on a nefarious moustache for her to twirl and cackle under.

      No one is buying this shit.

      Also to everyone saying that "mass slaughter of innocents has always been in her character", were we watching the same show?

      She conquered a city by catapulting them with the chains of freed men in order to inspire them to be the agents of their own uprising.

      She burned down a tent of men in power who were threatening to gang rape her, and thus won the support of everyone standing outside the tent, who was left unharmed.

      She executed two enemy soldiers who quite literally asked for it, the leaders of their troop, after offering them a way out which they didn't take, and thus conquered the remaining army without further violence.

      She crucified the masters of a slave city as punishment for crucifying little slave children.

      She executed traitors which is exactly the same thing Robb Stark, Ned Stark and Jon Snow, our "protagonists" have done, except when she does it it's framed as a doom and gloom act of pure evil. Frankly, this is nothing but a sexist double standard. This is the world they live in. What Ned did was worse; he executed a frightened young man who fled the Wall from certain death in literally the first episode. Where's the outrage over his madness and murderous intent?

      She locked up her own dragons, her most powerful weapons, after they accidentally killed one child.

      She has never been a person who hurts and tortures innocents for the hell of it. The setting of GoT is a harsh world of dog-eat-dog. She's done what it takes and never more than necessary.

      But,

      “Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants; it is the creed of slaves.” — William Pitt the Younger

      Necessity would have made for a much more compelling story for the commitment of atrocities, and a better critique of the horrors of war. The shallow tale they chose to spin of, essentially, a "crazy bitch" who killed people because she was on her period or something, or because she couldn't get laid, or because that's what women do when they get too greedy for power in a man's world, was a farce.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Do you care about other people's music?

      @Selira said in Do you care about other people's music?:

      I've found a ton of things I probably never would have found otherwise through using Spotify.

      It was pretty much a lifechanger for me.

      I like Spotify for similar reasons.

      A friend of mine boycotts Spotify for political reasons, that being that they don't pay artists fairly.

      However, considering I never would've heard of many of these small-time artists without the help of Spotify, and I happily spend money on them far more directly by buying concert tickets and so on, my own conscience feels pretty clear on it.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: What do you eat?

      <— Vegan AF. For the animals, for the planet, for health & longevity, for a sustainable future.

      Currently building a vegan startup and have been heavily involved in vegan activism/outreach for a good few years now. I made the switch 6.5 years ago and regularly attend meetups, festivals, talks and marches, so I'd say I'm pretty familiar with the broader vegan community. (Especially as I've been building contacts for my business.)

      Thoughts on Impossible & Beyond:

      • I don't like Impossible because they needlessly tested on (and killed) animals for no apparent reason.
      • Despite this I support cultured meat and think it's a great way forward for the animals and the planet.
      • I don't have any interest in eating fake meat, because whole-food plant-based (WFPB, google it) meals are healthier and I do care about that too. However, I think it's great to have the option of vegan junk food for transitioners and I'll definitely try it at least once out of curiosity.
      • I think plant-based proteins such as Impossible and Beyond (my pick being Beyond, obviously) are a very smart investment, and I am trying to grow my nestegg this way.
      • Of the vegans I know and talk to (many), I would say about 99% are supportive of cultured meat innovations etc. A third, like me, say they wouldn't want to eat it, mostly due to a visceral gross factor, but they still recognise this'll save many animals and are glad for it.

      @jibberthehut and anyone else interested in delicious vegan recipes:

      • This is my favourite from before I went WFPB. It's vegan, but should be viewed as a "treat" (a very, very delicious treat) as it's made with coconut oil and therefore pretty high in saturated fat. It does also have a good deal of protein though and I think your toddler will like it. I've made it many, many times, it's super easy and I've only ever gotten overwhelmingly positive feedback for it. Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Bites
      • Healthier recipe sites: Clean Food Dirty Girl, Forks Over Knives
      • An extremely supportive, wholesome Facebook group for health-focused transitioners, with really great moderation and a no judgement/shaming ethos: Clean Food Dirty Girl Private Group
      • Three amazing YouTube channels for vegan recipes: Raw. Vegan. Not Gross. (Healthy recipes), Pick Up Limes (Healthy recipes & wellness tips, run by a registered dietician), Avant Garde Vegan (less health focused, just good food)
      • A complete resource for the hows, whys & whats of going vegan, with recipes, product lists etc. Specific to the UK, US and Australia. (Pick your location at the top.) Veganuary

      I enjoy helping people go vegan and if anyone needs any tips/advice etc., feel free to tag or PM me.

      (Don't PM me to argue about it though, thanks.)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Spars and fights

      @Arkandel said in Spars and fights:

      Aside from the outcome, using dice or not... aside from all that, I think it's important everyone agrees beforehand how it's going to be, because mixing those things usually won't work well.

      I know this is kind of bad and communication is important and all that, but having to do this takes a lot of the magic out of it for me.

      I really enjoy spontaneity in my RP, regardless of whether we're talking about a casual social, a fight, etc. I don't want to plan the fine points of every scene ahead.

      Some basic things like, 'How do you want to do this? Dice-rolls, freestyle? ...' Sure, fine. And I will of course temperature-check if I'm worried about my RP partner's comfort, I don't want them to think that I OOCly hate them just because my character does, and I don't want to spring graphic gore on the squeamish.

      But if I need to discuss my expectations of banter and pacing beforehand? Ehhhhhhhhhhhhh.

      I'd rather do that very casually in a shared OOC setting like this one, or an in-game lounge/channel. I can't be the only one who, when starting a scene, prefers for there to be as little OOC chit-chat and background-noise as possible to get things rolling organically.

      I also do not honestly mind if someone has a different RP/writing style than me. I appreciate differences; they offer an opportunity to potentially be inspired and reevaluate my own preferences.

      While I have my own opinions on what makes an epic fight scene, my day isn't ruined just because someone did or didn't pronate their wrist.

      I'm a pretty agreeable person though and generally quite happy to go with the flow of whatever the other person wants. I don't care if you want dice-rolls or not. I prefer freestyle but it's nbd for me to adapt when in Rome. So perhaps my preference for minimal pre-talk has a lot to do with the fact that it's all just the same to me, but then I also think I'd have more fun RPing with someone who has a similar Yes-And, flexy improvisational attitude, and not someone who feels the need to dictate an excess of rules and regs beforehand. That all just makes me feel a little bit claustrophobic.

      These questions are fun to think about in a less consequential context, but when it comes to go-time my real main preference is that neither of us takes things too seriously.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @Wretched @Cupcake Adding in my support/agreement.

      I had my first diagnosis/prescription in my mid-teens and it has taken a long, long time to find the right chemical and therapeutic balance that works for me.

      If prozac doesn't work, don't get discouraged. Talk to your shrink. It may not be the right prescription for you. "Depression" is a pretty broad diagnosis that's comorbid with many, many other mental (and even physical) health conditions and it can take a while to figure out your exact causes/needs.

      Also if you have any reservations about your psychiatrist/therapist, if you feel like they don't listen to you, etc., know that they are also not your only option. There are many others in the profession and it's worth finding a person you feel totally comfortable with, who specialises in what you're going through. (Google is your friend.) You can be as specific as you like and no one can tell you you're wrong about your needs. For example, a trans friend of mine found working with another trans person made a world of difference. For me, it took a lot of experimentation to figure out which type of therapy I needed (not the one-size-fits-all CBT) and I've realised I'm more comfortable with other women. Explore your options. Don't settle.

      P.S.: Nice cat.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: The ethics of IC romance, TS, etc

      My hot take is this:

      Unless you are in an explicitly polyamorous relationship IRL, or have otherwise discussed your TS habits with your RL partner, who is aware and genuinely doesn't mind, TS, and most MU* romance RP, constitutes cheating.

      I'm not into polyamory IRL so I don't TS unless I'm single. I just think, if my partner were looking over my shoulder right now, would I be comfortable typing this? If the answer is no, I don't.


      As for anything else, things that happen between game characters are IC and should stay IC. I don't feel any kind of obligation to my character's IC partners. That relationship isn't real. I think discussing the ethics of "cheating" on your character's partner is the wrong one to have.

      Hoo boy. I'm going to catch flak for this one.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      Really starting to feel like I need better friends.

      A lot of people in my life treat me like shit, probably because over the years, I have allowed them to. As I grow and come into my own, though, I'm becoming less and less okay with this.

      Problem is, what do I do? I've already cultivated an extensive and incorrigible circle around me. Do I just cut all ties, put my foot down, walk away and start fresh? I mean, then I would have no social life at all, at least for a while, until I've figured things out. I feel like isolating myself would be worse for my mental health than having a good number of steady but shitty friends.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: The Dark Side of online Role-Playing

      MSB makes me glad I'm too dead inside to TS these days, lol

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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      Kestrel
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      Amazing good life stuff: I just moved into a new place and as far as the physical is concerned, I love it. Nice area, nice apartment, nicely-sized garden. It came utterly barren and unfurnished which is actually a good thing as far as I'm concerned, because I finally get a place I can truly make my own, design/paint it just the way I like it, add a lot of personal touches.

      Amazing bad life stuff: It's a Share of Leasehold property which means that while I own the apartment, I don't own the building it's contained in, the ownership of which is shared between the other neighbours, with whom I'm to have semiannual meetings to discuss things like how much money we're going to spend this year on maintaining/refurbishing the garden and outside area etc., and whether there are any present issues with the property. I didn't think this would be a problem when I moved in, because I figured adults would be reasonable, but fuck me, turns out the vast majority of my new neighbours are no-lifer retirees/widows with nothing better to do than gossip, bitch, complain and spy on each other.

      So the sweet old lady next-door asked if she could have a key to my garden; reason being that her gardener currently has to pass through her flat to access her garden, whereas my garden has external access, and he could just pass through my garden into hers. I said I'd think about it but after doing so and consulting some more experienced friends, I politely told her I was uncomfortable with this, as while I trust her not to do anything untoward, I don't know/trust her gardener and don't want him to have a key to an area that directly overlooks my bedroom + ensuite bathroom, nor to the glass door to my living room, which I already have security concerns about living in a ground-floor flat. For her it's an inconvenience issue; for me it's a security and privacy issue.

      She seemed like such a sweet old lady when I met her, and asked so sweetly, so I thought this would be fine, and she'd politely, Britishly understand and say 'no problem, thought I'd ask'. Except the moment I told her no, she immediately proceeded to flare up and throw an absolute tantrum, yell at and then threaten me.

      Well fucking shit. I don't know where to go from here. Do I continue to be polite and offer a compromise (which I was going to before she lost her shit — I was going to suggest I could let her gardener in if she lets me know in advance when to be around to do so) or do I immediately cut off all contact with her and try my best to avoid her? Because she could actually make real trouble for me, due to the terms and conditions of my purchase, and I was not looking forward to making war with the neighbours the second I moved in.

      Note to self: Never trust sweet old ladies.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Kestrel
      Kestrel
    • RE: The Dark Side of online Role-Playing

      @tek said in The Dark Side of online Role-Playing:

      also, the grooming shit happens a lot more than you think if two people IN THIS THREAD ALONE experienced it.

      To be frank, grooming happens everywhere, and I'd personally be much more worried about it happening IRL than online. The style will vary depending on the platform but I don't think online roleplaying communities present a higher risk than say, after-school activities or even just literally attending a school where they're in contact with adult teachers.

      I think the most important thing you can do is just teach your child how to recognise problem behaviour.

      My sister's been starting her daughter on "consent training" pretty much since she was born. She's encouraged myself and other family members to always ask for permission to hug her, and teaches her child that if she doesn't want to hug a person for whatever reason, she doesn't have to. This is distinctly different from how my sister and I were raised, where our parents pretty much just told us to go hug our grandma and just put up with being smothered with kisses etc. While totally harmless, these culturally ingrained lessons can just as easily make other, less innocent behaviours seem equally harmless later on, when they shouldn't be. I appreciate that this child is being raised early on to know that no one is allowed to breach her personal bubble without her express consent, under any circumstances, even if that person is a trusted family member/friend etc.

      The biggest thing that makes children targets is that they don't understand what's happening until it's way too late.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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      Kestrel
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @Carex said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      @Kestrel said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      Update:

      The crazy fucking bitch BROKE MY GARDEN DOOR. From the outside. With PHYSICAL FORCE.

      I’m getting a lawyer involved.

      Also booking a contractor pronto to wall off the entire garden before she gets any ideas about that fence.

      Make sure you go by your local courthouse tomorrow and take out a restraining order.
      Then if she shows up at your house you can call the cops on her.
      Also, your lawyer will love it so you can claim emotional damages if you go to court.
      He can say you felt threatened and had to involve the law.

      Yeah, a restraining order was the next step I was thinking of because I didn’t “feel” threatened, I 100% was threatened, a number of times, with implications of blackmail and then actually breaking and entering was one hell of a step too far.

      I’m just trying to think if that’s too much?

      Ugh. I just moved in. Been loving it so far. It sucks to find out that my neighbour’s a nutjob in under two weeks flat.

      At this point I don’t even think any kind of communication with her that doesn’t have a lawyer involved is worth it. If she’s willing to do this, no amount of civil dialogue is going to do jack.

      On a MUSH, this would be solved with a nice clean ban. 😞

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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      Kestrel
    • RE: Personal Agency for Personal Boundaries

      @bored said in Personal Agency for Personal Boundaries:

      Which leads me to the thought that it's not merely a matter of having the commands or not. We've had them, they're not magic bullets. It's really about building an overall structure of all the involved parts: staff policy (and follow-through), overall player culture, individual willingness to act, and the appropriate OOC tools. This kind of thing is trivial to code (its what, basically just an emit and maybe a staff channel echo?), but it's hard to implement culturally and see adopted.

      Well, the more the merrier I say. Is there such a thing as putting too much effort into making your community comfortable?

      I also don't know about anyone but even in less stressful contexts, i.e., where there's clear and enthusiastic consent present, I don't know that I've ever been upset about knowing just how much my partner (or RP partner) cares that I'm enjoying myself.

      A quick flash of green on both sides also has the benefit of being a feelgood, warm & fuzzy trust-building tool.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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      Kestrel
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @Carex

      We don't have guns here.

      But I can live vicariously through your sick, deranged fantasies. Thank you. These are now my own.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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      Kestrel
    • RE: Well, this sums up why I RP

      @Auspice

      EDIT: I forgot what I was actually going to say here, lol.

      I grew up on Terry Pratchett novels, so his death actually hit me in the feels. I told someone at the time and they were like, 'what, because a celebrity died?' I wanted to smack them.

      Gaiman's written a lot about his friend Pratchett and it's always a good read. While I know little about their collaborative process, I think their friendship is a cute story in and of itself, complete with compelling, relatable, flawed and wonderful characters.

      @Auspice said in Well, this sums up why I RP:

      I hate how, pre-PBs, some people were so obsessed with being the PRETTIEST that their descs became purple prose filled blocks of text that you could barely navigate and often described some horrendous inhuman thing because they lost the plot midway through but could only continue forward with their thesaurus-abusing narrative.

      Contrast: I loved reading bad descriptions. And while I'm glad roster characters are helping more people dive into new games they may be unsure they're willing to commit to yet, I sometimes hate not being able to know if I'm RPing with a roster character or something this person made, because if I don't know they made their own character then it's harder for me to make a quick, snap decision on whether this person is worth my time.

      Hate me, judge me, call me an elitist. The fewer barriers there are for players to quickly trip up and wave those red flags nice and clear for me to see, the better I can manage my time.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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      Kestrel
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @Groth said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      @Kestrel said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      On a MUSH, this would be solved with a nice clean ban. 😞

      So I don't know the law where you live, but since you said this is an association owned house, that means the possibility exists of her being evicted if she is sufficiently disruptive.

      Where I live it takes quite a lot to reach that point as long as theyre paying their fees on time, but breaking and entering into your neighbors sounds up there.

      You might want to talk with the association board, maybe this isnt her first time doing this kind of thing.

      Yeah, so here's the thing. The neighbours convene annually to elect/reelect the board of directors for the company which owns the building (which is the neighbours, it's all very Marxist). I was present at the December meeting to vote on the 2020 cycle where she was nominated — at which point someone turned to me and asked if I'd like to second, and I shrugged and said, sure, I'll second. (Again, she seemed like such a sweet old lady at the time.) So uh, yeah. Yikes. She has all the power here, which is why I'm getting a lawyer involved without delay. I don't think this is going to be solved with civil dialogue given she's already jumped to such extreme measures over something so small. Shit like this is major red flag behaviour.

      Among her threats — my lease contract says I'm allowed pets under the condition that I clean up after them and don't cause a nuisance to the neighbours. This is a term I fought to have added prior to purchasing the property because there's no other reason I'd want to live in a ground-floor garden flat. So she said she'd complain about the animal I haven't even gotten yet over this; I've been eagerly waiting to move house before adopting a new one, after my bestie passed last year.

      @JinShei said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      @Derp said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      @JinShei said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      @Carex said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      @Kestrel
      Also, remember, once she is inside your house you can shoot her dead. Just make sure she is fully inside the residence. If you have a restraining order out on her and she breaks into your home, you have a license to kill.

      Just finish the job. Shoot her at least three times at range, wait about a minute, call 911 while she bleeds out, try to sound like you're confused and in shock.

      You scare me 😛

      That is not true in every state or every situation.

      Best not.

      I'll be over here, in the UK.. Being scared of different things.

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      I'm not sure this counts as Health & Wealth & GrownUp Stuff but in other news the upcoming election is seriously affecting my mental health. I'm looking forward to it all being over, one way or another.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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