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@deadculture Well, that's shitty.

I know when Tia was shipped off, I had a pretty crappy "death confer" that was basically "You suck, get out, don't talk about it". I thought they did death chats with everyone.

This particular ethical violation did not occur the way that rumors seem to have said it occurred. Or, if it did (I am not all knowing), I did not take part in it.

Happy to apologize & own actual stuff, but I can only do that for .. actual things that happened that way. I also can't dictate who believes what, so at some point we just handshake and let it go, I guess. Don't have to love everyone!

@deadculture Yeah, I think they did that to the murder victims, not like "surrounding people". As far as I recall, the discussion wasn't very gentle with Arissa's player, which wasn't fair or nice. I didn't do it, and I wasn't actually on wizard staff at the time, but I had the impression as much. I apologize for not stepping up and saying that's wrong, be kinder.

@sunny Whoa, whoa, absolutely not - I'm not here to mock anyone. That's not happened at all.

I also haven't dismissed anyone. Someone said "hey, this was me, I had X experience, you weren't super nice" and I absolutely apologized for not being kind.

@sunny Owning your shit isn't the same as kowtowing to everything people believe.

And fair enough, if you say I'm coming off that way, I get it. Not intended, but there's not much else to do or say other than -- hey, here's what I remember. Here's what I can own to, here's what isn't fair to dump on me. That's all.

@utahsaint Nice to bump into you!

@sunny I accidentally clicked reply before I was done. You can believe or not, that's your choice! I've said all I can.

@pondscum I wouldn't have been a wizard at the time, so I'm not sure how I could've pulled you up -- that said...

You're correct, I did help murder that character. Regarding the forgery code-- I don't know anything about that, really. As far as I'm aware, Brad was more "pushed to step down" than fired because he didn't play ball with Lisa. Or Leia. Whichever was active.

So while, yeah, I absolutely killed your character, I didn't have anything to do with the staff warning (though they do give that to everyone) or anything else after.

I'm not here to issue blanket apologies for anything that people say happened; I'm here to have a chat, a discussion, and maybe shed some light on things I can offer insight to. On this one, this was long ago and I do not doubt that I was not KIND to you after. That's on me. I should've been nicer.

@deviante Oh god, the dogs. I forgot about ...Lord Snufflepants or whatever stupid things I named them.

@sparks They had it coming!!!!!

Hahah! She was ridiculous.

Did I ever tell you about the time she social imp'd Ojitar into killing all the Gold Dragon clan's horses?!

I'm not sure what you mean by forgery code, but I'll address the other thing.

My boyfriend does not exist; he has not been my boyfriend for a very long time. That said, sure, we dated while we played Firan, but that's not cheating. Neither is murder. I'm not sure what you're referring to, or who you're referring to, because again: I'm not getting much in the way of specifics.

I won't die on a hill that Brad never cheated, though it would surprise me to learn that he did. I can say, truthfully, I did not cheat at Firan. I did a lot of things that made people unhappy ICly, absolutely, and I'm not a warm & fuzzy cuddle bucket OOCly, but none of these things are bad.

Re: my intentions, dude, you know, I've said several times -- hey, PM me, let's talk about it. You've declined to do so, which is fine, but you've come stomping into a thread immediately after I offered another player an apology and trashed on me, so - you know. Again. shrug I'm going to decline to address this and you further here, but if you'd like to chat constructively, by all means, again, message me.

@bored Again, you're invited to speak to me about what, exactly, you say I did. Otherwise. shrug

@bored I certainly respect your feelings about this, though I'd point out that - at least some of the time - there are two sides. As guilty as staff was at not looking at players' feelings and taking those into account, sometimes people did get an unfair shake. Staff too.

But hey, I'm not really getting specifics here so I can't go into any and talk about those dual sides. If you have a beef, I'm happy to hear it - PM me. If not, you know, nice to see you again, thanks for chiming in.

@bored I can't speak to the rest of staff, certainly not Lisa, she wasn't ever very active while I was around, but if I publicly was a dick OOCly like this, as I said, that's not very fair, and I'm sorry. I certainly hope it was unintentional, an accident, or a misunderstanding.

@kanye-qwest I'm not sure who you were, and I certainly don't remember every interaction I ever had, but that doesn't sound very fair. It also doesn't entirely sound like something I'd do, but -- it was a long time ago and maybe I did, or maybe things were misinterpreted. Either way, we could have/should have paused and I could have / should have explained; I'm sorry about that.

@alzie Thanks! I feel like I never got my end-of-Firan bitching out, so I was pleased to pop in here.

@tempest The WORST of the WORST, I gather. From what I've been told.

@darinelle I KNOW YOU TOO

@deviante Aw, yes! I remember you -- I hope being my sister was fun for ya. How have you been?!