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    Posts made by Aria

    • RE: Critters!

      I... am pretty sure I kidnapped a neighbor's cat today.

      The problem is, she(?) doesn't have a collar so I don't know which neighbor. None of the people whose doors I knocked on recognized her picture. No one is responding on my community app. We're taking her to the emergency vet that's nearby to be scanned for a microchip as soon as @insomniac7809 gets home. But she's super friendly and in fairly decent shape....

      I'd have seriously considered just letting her hang out in the alley behind our house where I found her with some food, but it's dropped 30-degrees in a week and is dropping below freezing tonight. None of the local colony caretakers have their winter boxes out yet.

      So now I have this insanely friendly cat locked in my spare room, and four pissed off cats that are upset they can't sleep on the bed. >.<

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL things I love

      NASA has apparently declared that the Curiosity rover is a girl.

      I don't know why, but this makes me really happy.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @arkandel Yeeeeeeeah, even when I was in with the art nerds, jeans were in no way permitted. Ever. Ever. We recently had one day where we were allowed to wear them in celebration for raising a stupid about of money for our charitable giving campaign.

      It was only shortly (like maybe a year) before I started that they even did away with the "suits and ties every day" rule. I was hired in 2014.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      So, for the last two-ish months, I've been working at an (internal) internship in my company. Since we're enormous (we're talking over 16,000 employees here) they're basically an opportunity to be sent to another department on loan at your current pay rate, while your regular job is being held for you, so you can learn about a new section of the business, possibly work a high-profile project to put in your portfolio, and if they can use your internship to convince their VP to add headcount to their team, to get yourself a new position. In my case, this job is a level up from mine, so that new position would be a promotion that comes with an automatic 7% pay raise plus an increase to the base they calculate your profit-sharing bonus from every June.

      The only issue I've been having is that I've gone from working on the marketing team, specifically with the writers and the graphic designers and the UX developers to working with the sales team. And not just the sales team, but the B2B sales team in the notoriously conservative financial industry. Needless to say, the atmosphere -- and the dress code -- is very different. Like, I am no longer sitting next to a lady who wears Docs and plaid dress pants to work sometimes. I'm sitting next to one who wears blazers to work almost every day and still keeps a jacket in her cube 'just in case' for the days she doesn't. She's not an executive. She writes RFP content. I've mostly been able to get away with it during the 'summer' weather (that lasted until, like, Friday) when things are a bit more casual. But in the words of the Starks 'winter is coming', and I am not the sort of person who owns pumps and power suits.

      Well.... I just got almost $700 of winter clothes. For $285. And I'm almost as proud of that as I am of getting that internship, and am over here like:

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Tomorrow is the Deadline....

      I should probably note that the US actually does have laws about requiring employers to give time off to people to vote -- something along the lines of, "If there's not three consecutive hours that the polls are open during your shift, your boss is required to let you adjust your schedule so that there are." The thing is, a) most people don't know that and b) most Americans live in at-will employment/right-to-work states, so while your boss isn't allowed to fire you for taking time to vote on Tuesday, he or she is allowed to fire your ass because you wore a green shirt to work on Wednesday and fuck green. Like.... there's a whole host of things your boss isn't allowed to fire you for in this country, but the onus is on the employee to prove that's why they got fired. If your boss has about three brain cells to rub together, they will say, "Well, Jim, we've decided to let you go for being three minutes late to work that one time six months ago" as opposed to "Well, Jim, we found out that you really butt-sex -- the with other dudes kind, I mean! -- and haha, Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Get your stuff and get out."

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Help a kitty out.

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Tomorrow is the Deadline....

      @tnp said in Tomorrow is the Deadline....:

      @blondebot said in Tomorrow is the Deadline....:

      Honestly, trying to set up automatic voter registration in a country of some... 300 million or so people sounds like a logistical nightmare and we're already crazy in debt.

      Issue social security number, register person to vote, taking effect 18 years from date of birth. Done.

      District assignments.

      You'd have to tie it to their address somehow, likely via tax return. Now what if they've moved since filing their taxes? Or are low enough in income they're not required to file? Or are a dependent on someone else's tax returns, as is the case for most 18-21 year olds?

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Tomorrow is the Deadline....

      @goblin -- Other people have covered the idea of voter disenfranchisement pretty well, but I think there's something that may not have been explained that is true regardless of your political beliefs re: voter ID laws.

      You don't (at least theoretically, given some of the voter roll purge issues that have been cropping up) have to register to vote every year or in every election. Theoretically speaking, once you register to vote, you should stay registered to vote provided that you do so every so often, don't move, and don't commit a felony in a state where that removes your right to vote, temporarily or permanently.

      However, there have been issues of voter roll purges cropping up, so it's always worthwhile to check online -- which is really easy! -- as to whether or not you're registered and your registration information is correct. And there's people who only bother to vote in presidential elections. Or people who may be away from their polling place on election day that need an absentee ballot. Or who serve in the military, so they might be on base or overseas. Or are in college, so would need to change their registration if they wanted to vote where they go to school versus in their hometown. Or who have moved to a new area and simply forgot to update their registration. Or in my case I live in Pennsylvania, the most heavily gerrymandered state in the US. Recently (back in February), the state courts ruled against the drawings of district lines as they were and ordered them redrawn. My district -- which had been so heavily gerrymandered that my ZIP code literally had to be checked block by block based on your street address to figure out who your Congressional House representative is -- was completely redrawn, and the district I'm currently in versus the district my November vote will count for has totally changed. I used to be PA District 1 and I think I'm changing to PA District 3, or something. (I know the candidates, but keep forgetting the district ID.) For me, it was worth checking on my registration to make sure that my voter record had properly transferred and whether or not my polling place changed, so I don't show up at the wrong location and end up getting turned away.

      So, yes, it's a pretty garbage system.... but until recently, for most people post-Voting Rights Act of 1965, the big problem was remembering to update their stuff by the deadline if their situation changed. Slightly less so with the overt "hahaha, you're poor/brown/foreign-born but a citizen/unlikely-to-vote-for-our-dickface-candidate?!? you don't get to vote!!!!" bullshit.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • Tomorrow is the Deadline....

      In many U.S. states to register to vote. If you're a U.S. citizen, remember to exercise this right in order to protect other ones! Even if you also want to just burn this motherfucker to the ground right now. ❤ ❤

      https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/06/us/politics/state-voter-registration-deadlines.html

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good TV

      So I binged the entire third season of The Man in the High Castle yesterday. (Look, it was my first day of vacation. I wanted to spend it in leggings, eating garbage and watching TV with my dog. Don't you fucking judge me.)

      1. It was reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally good.
      2. Be prepared to have a lot of difficult and uncomfortable feelings this season.
      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good TV

      @wizz One of the things that I deeply value about the particular area I studied in school was learning to appreciate the difference between something being 'good' -- a term which I use here largely to mean well-done, culturally important, transformative for its genre, etc. -- and things that I like. Sometimes these overlap. Sometimes they don't. Hemingway, for example, totally changed English-language literature. He can also pretty much just eat my ass. I hate him very, very much and would punch his stupid face if I could.

      Buffy, thus far, seems to be a strange amalgamation of cultural zeitgeist that may or may not stand up to time, deeply influential re: pop culture, thoroughly entertaining, and at times hilariously awful. This is not a complaint. I am enjoying it immensely, as much for the good as for the really bad.

      Except Xander. Fuck Xander. Yes, I already said that. Imma say it again. Fuck that guy.

      PS -- Who else is SUPER EXCITED about The Man in the High Castle dropping tomorrow?

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good TV

      Don't get me wrong -- I am legit loving it. Like, every single minute (save the Xander gross outs) is just complete and utter gold. But.... in the same way that I love Killer Klowns from Outer Space and not in the whole "this has a place of high honor in the canon of nerd culture" way.

      I am also regularly looking at this and going "Yeaaaah, there is some major 'WB in the 90s' overlap with Xena here." The nostalgia factor alone is amazing.

      This may change as the seasons go on, but for now I'm going to revel in the butterfly hair clips, body glitter, and angsty teenage brooding.

      (ETA, I got to say "That's, like, the Chekhov's gun of vampire-slaying" last night. That alone made that hour of my life worth it.)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good TV

      @coin I just watched a teenage girl use a sewer vampire as a bloodhound to track down a sexy cannibal child molester bug lady. I'll be the judge of bad, thank you.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good TV

      crawls out of her hidey-hole just for this

      I feel like I'm committing some kind of gamer nerd sacrilege here, but @insomniac7809 and I recently decided to sit down and go through all of Buffy because neither one of us have ever seen the whole series. I mean, I think I watched Seasons 1-2 when they came out, got lost somewhere along the way for "paramilitary organization run by rando college boy" season, and popped back in at some point along the "Willow is a lesbian witch and Xander's girlfriend is a demon but a good demon now or something" arc.

      We're only about five episodes in and ohmigod you guys, this is so, so, so hilariously 90s. And wonderfully, deliciously campy levels of bad. It's amazing, in a totally different way than I think people decided it was amazing 20+ years ago.

      (However, please note: Xander is gonna squick you the fuck out. Especially now that he can be viewed as Joss Whedon's pervy self-insert. You've been warned.)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL things I love

      flooooooops

      We just got back from seeing Panic! at the Disco.

      Through the magic of the concert gods, I managed to get second row seats the day of the show. At the original price.

      It was soooooooooo gooooooooood.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Mushing and Dating/Relationships

      My boyfriend and I are big fat nerds who met via RP, then became OOC friends, then he met my RL friends, then he met me, then we became RL friends, and then one day when he was visiting and we were drunk, I got sick of his shy hinting and shamelessly threw myself at him.

      That was a little over ten years ago. Now we have a house and too many cats and no time to RP together, which is hilarious because we RP on the same site and our characters are married. I guess they, too, grunt at each other incoherently in the mornings and assume everything is fine so long as the House isn't on fire and the occupants are fed.

      ❤ you, @insomniac7809 !

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: MU Things I Love

      @saosmash said in MU Things I Love:

      RPing about nothing doomy

      You clearly missed the part where Luca showed up without pants on.

      posted in Mildly Constructive
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    • RE: Recipes!

      I just bought an Instant Pot from Prime Day based, at least in part, on the recommendations here.

      You fuckers better cough up the goods now.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Critters!

      My dog has an enormous bed. I have a small car. Still, when driving halfway across the state to visit @insomniac7809 's parents, we went to the trouble of bringing it with us so he could be comfortable.

      This morning, I woke up to this. Note that we apparently went to all of the trouble of squeezing his enormous bed into the car so that he could sleep on the bare hardwood floor next to his dog bed, and not actually on it.

      FFS, dog. >.<

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @surreality said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      That they would have so many two minute long individual ads for various bits of medication did not help. Really, I swear, Hulu, I am not your target audience for 'please go get a prostate exam'.

      There was a brief period where every YouTube ad that came up was for psoriasis.

      Every. Single. One.

      I'm not sure what the correlation between psoriasis and 90s alt rock playlists is, YouTube, but sure. Go for it.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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