There's no solution to this problem.
As some may know, my partner became a physician's assistant about 2 years ago. Recently, she moved from a rural clinic where she made peanuts and had to drive 45+ minutes every day to a pain clinic downtown, where she makes more money and has a 20 minute drive to work. But since then, her work is so erratic and poorly managed that I cannot rely on her to do anything to help me with the kids after work.
So, I now drive the kids to care / school, pick them up, cook them (and her) dinner, and take them to extra-curriculars on a daily basis, on top of the usual schedule of work, marketing, trying to make after-work meetings, last minute projects at work, and so on.
Adulting sucks and is hard, but I kind of see how or why people get divorced. If I'm not really getting any support on the necessaries of raising kids and life, what's the point?
(Also, I put her through school to become a PA after law school, so, yes, I'm a bit disgruntled about the entire thing right now, it's a peeve thread.)