@Pandora said in How to Approach (nor not) a Suspected Creep:
I was pointing out that while you may be trying to help, plenty of people reach out in that same way trying to be instigators or gossip-gatherers & it's hard in a moment of high-pique to tell the difference.
Agreed.
PLENTY of people have reached out to me after public drama incidents under the false flag of being a sorority sister, but really they just wanted the gossip or to be a man-in-the-middle social engineering agent to get inside information on the bad things I might be saying about the 3rd party.
I'm mostly a person who obsesses over their own internal compass. If I'm not already reaching out to you for advice or to vent at, then you're probably not someone I want that from or don't need that service.
Would I call that harassment? No. But definitely an eh, fuckoff.