Conversely, I hate when people are like HELP ME FIND THING I HAVE LOOKED EVERYWHERE*
You go lift up three things and find them under one of them. LOOK UNDER THINGS FOR FUCK'S SAKE.
Conversely, I hate when people are like HELP ME FIND THING I HAVE LOOKED EVERYWHERE*
You go lift up three things and find them under one of them. LOOK UNDER THINGS FOR FUCK'S SAKE.
Accurate in that I would like all of this nonsense and all of you off my lawn.
The weirdo stalker is gross. However, I also found @surreality's inability to just stop being a dick a little gross. Sorry not sorry.
@surreality No one has said it was an "innocent inquiry", unless I have missed something? There's a difference between a confrontational statement and a personal attack, is what I'm getting at. I think the two being conflated is an issue.
Digression - it is an issue for ME because it happens to me all the time. Like, no, trust - if I am personally attacking someone, there will be no doubt.
@surreality said in RL Anger:
in order to sling some shade around in the most spectacularly clueless fashion I've witnessed in a few days, which is saying a lot around here.
This is way more of a personal attack than what they did. If you are trying to escalate nastiness, cool, go and do. If you aren't trying, just saying from an outsider perspective: you are escalating nastiness
@surreality, @kk didn't personally attack you? A personal attack is an attack against your person or character, not an observation of what they think you are doing.
This has been a couple of pages of really interesting interpretations. Awesome morning-coffee-ignoring-email reading.
@WTFE said in RL Anger:
ver understood why this was considered a virtue instead of an exacerbating condition.
If someone doesn't realize they're being an asshole, it's not really quite their fault (except insofar as not knowing you're being an asshole is often fucking stupid).
Wrong.
Oh man it would be fun to make another grid. And we might! But it is unlikely to be Eurus, because of our avoidance of PCs without agency. Eurus is an unpleasant place to be, if you aren't one of those in power.
Austin is an amazing, wonderful city. Four thumbs up! Expensive, but definitely not more so than SF, NY, or any of the others. I hope you own a car. Like all cities in Texas, public transport is kind of a joke.
Ignoring further attempts at derailment: I think a lot of it is the motivation and wherewithal to do ingratiating rp. Find some kind of hook, some sort of ego-stroking aspect of your character that you can use to get close to the people things hinge on, and get them hooked on rp with you.
I've had characters do in depth personal interviews for books/travel guides. I've had characters devise elaborate fortunes to tell for powerful people. Scherezade those mfers. Every rper is, at the core, a vain and undisciplined aspirant novelist.
Speaking anecdotally, I noticed (and commented) that there were WAY more PRPs during the siege, and I was happy since that lent it a bit more 'realness' for the people involved. But I definitely agree that having a way to tie them in/together that works better would have served to do more.
@Thenomain Not one person on our staff is incapable of dealing with pedantry, argument, or discussion - though we do shut a couple of those down in public channels (or pages, in my case) if it goes on too long or starts annoying other people. The reasons you listed are not at all what you were 'tacitly banned' for.
But, in this case, it's whatever. I think you logged on and made two characters and never rpd either of them, right? If you want to log one in and kick around with your friends, that's fine. I just don't want you logging on to arch me, because frankly you are kind of a boring nemesis.
@icanbeyourmuse Still not really sure what that has to do with letting people decide to rp with you making it hard to get involved in Arx, but ok!
@icanbeyourmuse Wait, are there games in which people aren't allowed to decide whether or not they want to RP with other people?
Are they big on vengeful zombies? My bestie and I recently got themed tattoos with the NC logo of Bitch Planet.