So, I feel as if this is where I preach the 'We Need Better Tools' sermon again.
Yes, culture has changed, and to accommodate that changing culture we need a better way of connecting players. I'll be honest, I love Ares. I love what it is doing so much. I thought I'd be salty about the move away from grids and to scenes, but I really, really like RPing from my browser. The only struggle I have? I have NO CLUE how to find RP on that system.
The only tool provided to players to find people willing to RP is the RP Requests channel. This is a struggle for me because I generally log in for the evening slightly before every one else (about 30 minutes or so). So my typical experience on Ares is I connect and get situated, then I ask on the RP Requests channel if anyone is down for a meet. Because there's not a lot of people on yet, I don't get much of a response. I then have a dilemma. If there is a specific person I know I need/want RP with, I can page them directly. If not, I can either wait until someone else asks for RP (typically when it's too late for me to reasonably start a scene) or ask for RP every 5 minutes on channel, risking sounding like an overexcited dog.
Twenty years ago, when games were more grid oriented, I typically used +where as my find-rp tool. With a single command and quick scan of my screen I could typically tell:
- Who was already in a scene and whether that was a scene I could join.
- Who was not in a scene but was open to being approached by pretty much everyone, plus what that scene might be about.
- Who was on, but was being a bit more exclusive in who they were going to RP with.
- Who was on, but was just on for boards, paging, and chat.
+Where was a bad tool for that purpose, but over decades of building up MU culture around how to signal for RP, it worked reasonably well for a long time.
We need a tool that provides that information to characters so that people wanting to RP with each other can do so. The +wantrp command on some games starts to get there, but it doesn't convey a sense of what a scene may be about. In the past, I've proposed a simple change to the +wantrp command that would add a list of suggestions. So something like:
- +wantrp on=My character totally just got beat up and has plot info I totes wanna pass on!!!! (plus some healing RP, plz)
- +wantrp on=Looking to meet criminal-types and get my char involved in that sphere.
- +wantrp on=Setting up at the Cafe for random meets and maybe a philosophical convo on the role of God in magic.
That with +scenes could give players looking for RP a pretty good start.
You could also provide a tool where players flag themselves available for certain scenes or types of RP. The point being: Yes, finding RP is hard. Yes, it will always be hard, but right now its harder than it has to be, and we should be looking on how to remove some of that friction.