Also, and I realize this is difficult, but it's also important to realize it's gameplay.
I don't have concerns about players who pop out mush babies and then ignore them in a 6 hour unrelated plot scene or barely ever give them screen time afterwards--even though yes, there are some extremely ill people RL that do leave their toddlers/infants alone in an apartment for 12 hours at a time to go get their fix/try to deal with all the other stuff they are having to deal with in their lives. I've been a therapeutic foster parent. A lot of my emergency/short term placements were from those kinds of situations. I do not get palpitations based on mush behavior around it because thank god most people are normal and it's just where they are focusing their gameplay in the time they have to play rather than needing to uphold some kind of educational example of the appearance of the real impact of parenting on screen.
I don't get upset about other people playing out rape fantasies in private. I don't get upset about people RPing out abuse in private. If they are look at me assholes who shove it down unconsenting people's throats, that's different.
The depictions of things on a mush are rarely accurate, either the Dudley do-right perfect version or the total hot mess of epic it would never happen version.