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    Best posts made by Miss Demeanor

    • RE: Optional Realities & Project Redshift

      @Jaunt To toss in my own two cents once more... I understand that you've dipped a few toes into the WORA/MSB pool here and there. But that doesn't mean that you -know- us. Nearly everyone here has been rubbing elbows with one another pretty consistently for years. We've played with each other on games, poked at each other on the forums, shared ideas and thoughts and opinions. And I'm fairly confident in stating that the vast majority of us have, at some point, gone full retard on either WORA or MSB and still managed to come out on the other side intact. I'm not suggesting you be a robotic loudspeaker broadcasting the latest trends and updates for OR. I'm suggesting that you take the time and effort to really become part of the community. Learn about the people here. We have threads all over the place dedicated almost solely to sharing stuff we like or find awesome or hate or peeve on. We all had to, over time, pick up on the cues and tics of the community. That's sort of where you're at. You've lurked around here and there, you've made a couple posts, but you're still sitting at the fringes. Plenty of veterans of the community have gotten off to a bad start and had to work their way back up the ladder. The real question is whether you're willing to invest that kind of time and effort. Oh, and whether or not you can grow a thick skin. That's one thing that's pretty much a requirement around here. We snark. We flame. We yell and curse and argue. And then we generally find a common ground and move on until the next time.

      None of this will happen overnight, or even in a week or two. But over time you'll find yourself just sort of... integrating into the community. Find other topics in other threads to branch out into. I realize that you and Jeshin and.. crayon (I think that's the third guy?) are all kinds of excited about your site... but if that's the ONLY thing you ever talk about eventually it'll get boring to people. We have geeks and nerds of every flavor here, chances are good you can find other threads that interest you. And other people that share those interests. At the end of the day, if you want to integrate, you can't just be 'that OR guy who only ever talks about OR'. Go forth, share your interests, connect, and leave OR/PR in this thread. I think you'll find that people here are pretty forgiving when you seem more like a person and less like an adbot. We've got coders, gamers, music-lovers, tv show followers, lawyers (hi @Ganymede!), parents, techs, and everything in between. Find some of that common ground!

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Steam Buddies?

      I have the game. And the three character packs. I'm looking for the Claptrap bonus levels DLC to go on sale.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @surreality As someone who had 'those endowments' as a teenager, I would have told them to go fuck themselves in the chorus line, since apparently having tits automatically makes you a whore. I also sympathize. Its why I stopped auditioning for school plays after the 7th grade despite really enjoying it.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Optional Realities & Project Redshift

      @Coin Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey! I resemble that remark!

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Sonder's Playlist

      Ever is still my hero.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Gamertags

      @royal I can't rofl-face at that, so have an upvote!

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Optional Realities & Project Redshift

      @Thenomain said:

      @Sunny

      (Not a robot.)

      That's exactly what a ROBOT would say!!!

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: A Wretched playlist

      Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaah... I learned pretty quickly that attaching your character to someone else's Keeper/BG or otherwise giving that 'in' to cherry-picking stuff that affects your character? BAD IDEA.

      Said as the player who played a Changeling whose fetch got both used AND killed without so much as a by-your-leave for someone else's plot. >.>

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Good or New Movies Review

      @arkandel I will absolutely agree that I would not want to sit through an extra 20 minutes of them explaining stuff in awkward and stilted fashion (as was apparently the only way to share information of any kind in this movie). And yes, IF they are looking to make this a franchise, I can absolutely see leaving people hanging a bit. But man, I will be super disappointed if nothing comes of it. I want to know more!

      Also, is it sad that the best relationship portrayed in that movie was between the orc gangster and his kid?

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Kinds of Mu*s Wanted

      The 90's was when things as a country really kinda started going insane. School shootings, teenage pregnancies, gang violence... it all kind of exploded in the 90's. It was still NEW then. Still shocking. Its what made it such a great setting for WoD. They were able to take what was happening, ramp it to 11, add supernatural craziness, and then toss you right into the middle of it. It was also the last decade to have truly decent Saturday Morning Cartoons and after school cartoon lineups. The death of good cartoon lineups spelled the end of an era.

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Somasatori's Playlist.

      BILLY! 😄

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Comfort Food...

      There is a hotel restaurant here in MI that I discovered has poutine as a 'secret' appetizer you can order. It will never be found on the menu, but you can ask for it. SO FUCKING GOOD. A bit pricey but goddamn is it worth it.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Kinds of Mu*s Wanted

      Great scene from a great movie. 🙂

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: The Apology Thread

      @Misadventure How about... 'I'm sorry that I did something that hurt you. I may not have intended to hurt you, but I did and that is my fault.' Pretty simple, sweet, and to the point.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @arkandel I know this will sound weird but...

      Rolltop Backpack of Holding

      On sale for $10 right now. I have the Handbag of Holding and this thing is AMAZING.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: RenoMUSH - The Biggest Little Game on the Net

      @RDC Heeeeeeeeeeey. I want to play Geist on SHH. 😞

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: The Apology Thread

      @Misadventure Actually, what he would do is simply refuse to OOCly discuss anything ICly, including the path of IC relationships with other people. And then turn around and do things ICly that he knew would be hurtful and harmful to others, effectively blindsiding not just characters, but players. If you've ever played out an IC relationship, you should know that OOC communication is KEY. Yet he would patently refuse to communicate OOCly, then would 'shut down empathy' for them when they expressed hurt or anger towards the decisions that he made for his character. He was steering his character, there wasn't some mystical force driving his character to do things that he had at least an inkling would hurt someone's feelings OOC. And rather than sit down and say something OOC about the direction he wanted to take his character, he would hide behind 'IC is IC'.

      So... yeah, maybe he should... I dunno, actually apologize for blatantly treating the people behind the characters as shittily as his character treated theirs.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      I'll admit, probably my favorite movie this year was Murder on the Orient Express. Which... oh no, a reboot of a movie... from 1974. Based on a book from 1934, written by one of my favorite authors. Still a DAMN good movie.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: Kinds of Mu*s Wanted

      @tragedyjones There's no FLYING in CHANGELING!

      Sorry, I heard it in Tom Hanks' voice in my head and I had to post it. XD

      posted in Adver-tis-ments
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
    • RE: The Apology Thread

      @Auspice I'm not trying to address his every interaction ever. I'm trying to address the ones where there was no OOC communication. Its that whole thing of 'just because it didn't happen to you doesn't mean it didn't happen at all'. You may not have had any problems. But clearly other people did. I know I did. Any time I tried to talk to him OOCly about the direction our characters were taking he would respond only with 'I don't plan things out' and 'I keep it all IC'. He knew what he was going to have his character do, but he knowingly left me in the dark, then acted surprised that I was upset when he pulled a 180 and I was left holding the bag. Then got mad at me for daring to be mad at him for not communicating with me. Oh... and all the while bitching to me about how his decision was coming back to bite him in the ass as the person he was chasing after wasn't communicating with him, and it was frustrating him.

      So I'm glad that you didn't have any issues with him. Not everyone was that lucky in their dealings with him. And that post of his? Not an apology. @Sunny hit the nail on the head. There's no 'I'm sorry I...' in there, just 'I'm sorry they...'.

      posted in A Shout in the Dark
      Miss Demeanor
      Miss Demeanor
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