Posts made by RightMeow

@Wizz Oh hey... I know I just met you and this is crazy. But here's my RP list - come join me maybe?

I'm going to play with all these listed alts, be aware. Especially @Kanye-Qwest because that one looks like FIRE.

(watches all the alts get deleted - damn brah)

@eye8urcake

If she is born before 12:01 on the 1st, it counts towards 2019 even if it is 11:59pm.

I hope that everything is going well with her and that all things go good. I will keep them in my thoughts.

I, too, am Apostate there. --- We are all Apostate. Is there only one Apostate? There are questions to question.

Or I'm boring little Esme. Which is everywhere on the boards, so that one is probably the correct one.

@Sunny

But don't come spinning into scenes. Rodica judges.

I think don't be a jerk is always a good one. Saying staff retains the right to ask anyone to leave.

I know, personally (as in just me), when the rules are basic (don't be a jerk, etc). I'm more like okay. I get that. When they are super structured (listed out about specifics like no this and no that) two things happen. One, I worry that the staff are going to be power-tripping with their way or get off my fucking road. Which isn't fun if you can't offer communication. Two, that they are reacting to a fallout that wrecked the game for a time - as in oh, Mu* who hurt you?

I got my reddit secret santa gift and I'm so excited by it. This person painted me a happy rainbow colored painting. I put it directly on my wall... all the happy. Thanks @Auspice for telling me that the site exists.

No Five Finger Death Punch. NO.

I appreciate you, but do not re-make house of the rising sun

@Tinuviel

Also, I don't know if I vented, but... after all that. They got my birthday wrong and I have to pay another $50 to fix it.

Sad

Oh.. um... ^^^^^ That

Pretend I did that.

@Ganymede

I am one of those annoying optimists IRL. Like my FB is only about rights for all people, loving each other, being kind, and supporting people without judgment.

I wouldn't say I was naive. I have no doubts about people, I just like to try to expect the best in them and believe it's there. It's becoming a struggle and I'm annoyed at this. I'm annoyed that I'm picking up more of the annoyance instead of 'shining through it'. I'm just soooo frustrated with it.

First, I agree with @Ganymede - don't tell someone how to parent their child. You have NO clue what is going on in their world, with their child, etc. Nor do you have a right to know.

Second, it is fucking TERRIFYING raising a child. You are always doing it wrong or not enough. You are too strict or not strict enough. You are surrounded with predators, etc. So as a parent, it is terrifying out there. Completely terrifying. Fight me on this.

Third, no one has to tell you the rules of their household. I'll be honest. Anything with a password, I have that password. If you are my child, I know how to access your shit. You know I will, but I will wait for a reason. Don't give me a reason by showing me that trust can't be given and we are good. I've never had to use a password, but I have them. You don't like that, that's fine. It's not YOUR job to protect my child; it's mine.

My goal as a parent is to have a child that is secure and has the least amount of trauma that I can prevent. I can't prevent it all. They have to make their own choices, but it's my job to guide them. I don't want them in jail and I don't .. let me say this again.. DO NOT want to identify them in a morgue.

So if she needs to protect her child however she feels is right, your job is to shut the fuck up. There isn't abuse. If there was, call a person. Have it checked out. I understand teenagers need space to explore who they are, but they are still very much children. They don't (sorry to any teenagers on here) understand some of the depravity that we do as adults. Honestly, I hope they don't learn about it in an intimate way. I hope they do get their childhood and thank god for people that will protect it.

So TL;DR -- back off of parents just trying to make it so they aren't identifying a body, filing a missing person's, or dealing with a child's trauma at someone else's hands.

4 managers (in various roles) and 1 over manager with a manager over that.
1 manager (me) has a set days off because they have family needs to take care of that the other three do not. Those needs dictate a tendency to have Mon/Thur be days off. Unless a two week notice is given or at least a one week to figure things out.

Today

Overmanager: Did you notice all of you have Monday off?
Me: Nope, it's my regular day off though.
Overmanager: This needs to be fixed. I'm taking the day off too. So that leaves no one here.
Me: Hmmm

A couple hours later:
Me to Manager 2: Did you notice we all had Monday off?
M2: Nope, I'm not coming in. I'll turn my phone off.
Me to M3: Did you notice...
M3: Nope, I'm working too much this week I need to take it off.
Me to M4: Did you notice...
M4: Oh, did they tell you we have a mandatory corporate thing on Thursday?
Me: No
Me to M4: Did you notice...
M4: Oh, yeah. Ugh. I just have to cut hours. I'm not sure I can swing that either.

Me changes schedule and calls Overmanager. Response:
Yeah, take off Wednesday (that I already figured out) hangs up on me
Me: Why thanks, Me. I so appreciate you going out of your fucking way to help save my ass from over over manager. Why thank you so much.

Hour later

Go in to adjust written in schedule times and pause. Stare at said schedule. Stare longer. Feel the fury.

While I am altering my FUCKING LIFE they each have THREE days off. I have one. ONE. Because I'm probably going to have to come in on Thursday. HOWEVER, even if that were not the case... THREE FUCKING DAYS OFF when I had two and it was up to ME to figure it out and do it?

SO MUCH VENT.

I might start hating people.

@Auspice

This is not the first time 'or made it worse' has come up in regards to my char. I should really look into that. I mean, I won't, but I probably should.

@Auspice

I fixed it. YOU'RE WELCOME

@Herja

I'm not sure which I'm more afraid of. Losing the char I love. Or realizing I enjoyed it happening. I feel like this is the ST version of: Shhh, let it happen.

@Herja

I was going to say we should RP so I can pour over your poses. Then I realized I don't want my char to have a painful death.

I work with food. If someone on my team is sick, they stay home. I'll try to work with them and hopefully they have paid days, but STAY HOME.

@surreality

It's only like 3 days after my actual one. I see what happened. I'm old. They obviously cried with rejoice on my day of birth. So that 6 looks like a 9. I did send it to my sister and ask if my life has been a lie.

Halp!

Okay, so... my birth certificate. One I have had for a million years. One I have used for all of life. It got lost in my last move. I wanted to get a new one (see vent about the fucking charges for that). I did. It has .. wait for it..

THE WRONG BIRTHDAY

Trust me, I've had it for more than a few gos around the sun. I know my birthday. It's on every other fricken legal document. Now they want to charge me another $50 to correct their error? Is this real life? Can they legally do that if they fucked it up?

AGGAHHRATHAHAGHHGEAGEGAG!!