@Pandora said in TS - Danger zone:
There is no one-size-fits-all for consent in fiction, what's important is to know your own limits/boundaries and enforce them to your own level of comfort. No one can force anyone to RP anything. I repeat, no one can force anyone to RP anything. They may try, but your keyboard + mouse + mental well-being are in your hands, literally
Well, you did warn us you aren't in the business of holding your tongue...
I don't really agree with what you're saying here. I'm pretty sure I understand where you're coming from, and, yeah, ideally we'd live in a world where people don't have baggage. But what you're saying here is pretty reminiscent of Nancy Reagan's line about how only you can choose to let words hurt you.
RP is frequently a place where people expose vulnerabilities they wouldn't elsewhere. That means that they're more, well, vulnerable. Maybe you think that's unwise, but people are frequently unwise.
And besides, nobody can coerce you to do anything, right? If someone has you at gunpoint, you don't have to do what they want. You can always just get shot. In RP, the potential consequences are much less dire, but I think it's sort of dishonest to pretend that people aren't hugely coerced at times by OOC considerations.
Also I wrote this immediately after waking up and my head is full of spiders