- Do you feel as though this community has acted abusively towards OR, Jeshin and Crayon? If so, do you feel as though you had a personal hand in that, whether purposefully or unpurposefully?
Oh yes. Absolutely. However, every individual in this thread is their own person. I don't distrust OR because of your behavior; the idea of a community being a thing whole cloth falls apart at a certain level. We used to call it the "Wora Hive-Mind Fallacy," because many people quite happily said how evil Wora was because Wora is evil. Nevermind that a lot of the changes you see in the Mush community came from discussions had on Wora. Cherry-picking has its uses, when done by a craftsman. You end up with a better wine, for one.
I also talked to @Jeshin one on one as a reasonable human being, and I respect him. In your lack of reading back pages, you have undoubtedly missed where he said he was okay with this level of conversation on OR.
Yes, your boss said this kind of conversation was okay. Frustrating, infuriating, stress-inducing, but not bad. I can respect that, and have defended him many times in this thread as well.
So your own over-simplified, leading question can get Socratic with itself.
- Do you feel that Jeshin and Crayon have failed to answer your questions to your liking due to some sort of illicit intentions, or do you feel like it's possible that there has been a breakdown in communicating clearly across the aisles?
Yes. Many, many times, yes. Most of them, yes. Do I feel that it's because of a lack of understanding? Absolutely, and I have said as such, and found different ways to say as such. You, yourself, are introducing ideas not mentioned earlier in this thread meaning that of three OR representatives, no two of them have given the same viewpoint of what OR is about.
And respectfully, no, I'm not going to show you examples of this. There is a limit of how much time I'm going to spend on your project. I have stuff of my own I need to get done.
- Do you care enough about furthering the conversation to get the information or answers that you seek to post them specifically and clearly, and directly to me?
If you don't understand the answer to this by now, then you're not paying much attention. You want things to be in a way that you want them, which is a big reason why I don't trust you. You could have said: I don't get it, Theno, when you say xxx because I see yyy. Did I mention what I think of the Socratic method? I'm not twelve, and I'll ask you not treat me as such; please read what's in front of you.
To you, though? I've also made a very simple, straight-forward statement twice now. I don't understand why you're not understanding the words: You First.
Be engaging, and you will be engaged. Be honest, and you will be respected.