@Bobotron
Well here's what I both love and hate about Changeling:
- You have been put in a situation where you have absolutely no control.
- You have regained enough control to escape.
- You have a built-in support group that has one foot in the real world and one foot in the world that abused them.
Characters and situations write themselves.
What World of Darkness is (and always has been) particularly bad about, though, is they set up these situations and effectively make the characters superhero in relative power level and power variety and doesn't match the system to the theme they're trying to invoke.
This is kind of a known issue with most "do whatever you want" game systems. Eclipse Phase is amazing at escaping it and drenching every part of the system in the theme it wants. It's not my kind of system, but I appreciate it for what it does.
Anyhow, that Changeling attracts abuse addicts is about as surprising as Werewolf attracting steroid freaks or Vampire attracting control freaks or Mage attracting rules lawyers, etc. etc. It's another issue of not wanting to associate with a group because of the most negative of its fanbase.
Sometimes ya just gotta latch on and ignore the negativity because you're having fun.
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addendum: I think the Chronicles of Darkness line is genuinely trying to resolve this. Mage is no longer a rules lawyer's wet dream, and I'm hoping Changeling does the same thing tho from what I've seen so far it looks kind of gentrified (no pun intended) and bland.
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I lied; some pun was intended.