@faraday said in Encouraging Proactive Players:
Even good players while and complain sometimes.
I guess I don't agree here. I've met a lot of good players, and the single, consistent aspect they have is that they do not complain on a consistent basis about the game on the game itself. Complaining about not having enough time to play, or about life, or about being a Maple Leafs fan is not the same as complaining about a game, its staff, and its policies when you are connected to it.
Even I whine and complain sometimes and I'm one of the most "can't we all just play nice and get along" crusaders on these boards. I think people need to be mature enough to take complaints with a grain of salt.
I think you are far too critical of yourself.
Now if it's bordering on abusive or being so constant and obnoxious that it's causing a disruption, that's different. But kicking someone off the game just for whining? Come on.
Maybe we differ as to what we consider "so constant and obnoxious that it's causing a disruption." I think our lines are different here.
In my opinion, if you've a problem with a game take it to a +request or @mail or page. I've had long, long, long conversations with people about decisions in the past. I don't mind engaging. But if you're taking to the Public Channel as to how you disagree with so-and-so or this-and-that, I may very well pull you aside and say "stop that shit." And if it continues again, I don't remind removing a player for not doing as they were asked because this demonstrates a general disregard for what I consider to be a reasonable request by staff.
I have been called harsh and draconian, and this is mostly true when it comes to staffing. But that's also why people have asked me to be staff, because I'm okay with being harsh and draconian.