@Arkandel said in The 100: The Mush:
I.e. they rolled a character, got out of CGen, found themselves a room to idle in, made few if any attempts to meet others, signed up for no +events but no one is inviting them to things.
It's actually a thing that happens. Very peculiar.
Its a vicious circle.
Some do log in and page about for rp, getting the 'I owe my friend rp, /I'm just checking bboards and mail/etc ... here's a rain check' which is never cashed and the asker usually get tired of paging to ask for that RP, they get crickets on chans set up for RP when they ask, or see the regulars in a scenes, ask to join and are told things like the scenes are too big several days in a row.
Reality is probably in the middle of both these ends of the spectrum. We know some folks that are in the 'regular' group(s) go out of their way to play with others and make them feel included, just as we know there is that person or two that well actively choose not to play with others and is usually the one to make comments about how they don't like their style or think their a snowflake or don't like how they 'play' the game. Plus other circumstance like time of day and availability that contribute to make it seem like either end is contributing (inclusive and promoting RP as well as walling off RP in some manner).
It all happens, but middle of the spectrum, we all seem to find our places to play here and there.