@Jaunt I'm not an "insider" either, actually I have no idea what it means to be on the inside (I guess I -have- TS'd a lot of people). But it's pretty clear that you and @Thenomain keep going in circles of intellectual-sounding aggression. It's like you guys are having a super polite British argument. One of you should stop engaging because it's not really getting either of you anywhere except frustrated.
I mean, my investment in this place could not be lower, I'm just bored and felt like participating as a productive member of internet society, which I'm only saying to illustrate the fact that I have absolutely no stake in defending the community. But what I'm saying is, you're being aggressive too. @Thenomain mostly seems like he's frustrated, as he's typically pretty professional, which I imagine is because you keep being pretty mildly aggressive.
You're somewhere in between micro-aggression and passive-aggression, like not even a subtle amount. You're going through basically the cycles that @Miss-Demeanor pointed out. Right now you're in the high-road cycle. To be honest, I have no idea what the fuck you guys are even arguing about. It just seems like you're both wasting steam being aggressive to each other, while people could be doing something productive like asking me to explain the comprehensive history of Alvin and the Chipmunks, which I learned two days ago for no reason.
I have no stake in anything, it's not my hill to die on, and I have no idea why anyone is doing anything, but I'm definitely not misinterpreting the pretty obvious cycles of the argument. If you truly are taking the high-road, then do what you said you're going to do, and focus on OR related posts. If you think @Thenomain is being aggressive to you for no reason, then stop engaging with more aggression and keeping it going.
Though, fyi, @Thenomain being aggressive for no reason is entirely out of character. I don't claim to know him all that well or anything, but I find it highly improbable that he's pissed off and shitting (Thank you dictionary, for pointing out that there are two T's in shitting) on you for no reason. I'm not generally one to victim blame, but there is no victim here. Going through cycles of aggression and defense, and high-roading, is at worst trollish behavior, or at best really poor communication.