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    Posts made by Aria

    • RE: Car Shopping

      @Kanye-Qwest said in Car Shopping:

      I have a mazda6 and i love it but I will probably trade it in for a subaru soon. For my dog.

      NGL. The fact that I have a giant, 85lb shag monster that also drools a fair amount is a big part of why I'm looking at the trim levels I'm interested in. Leather seats is not about luxury; it's about my dog not trashing my car within six months.

      Dumb as it sounds? The fact that Subaru makes accessories for their cars that are specifically for travelling doggos is a selling point, as is the large secondary market for custom-fit doggo items. You can get a cushy padded liner fitted to your cargo space if your pupper is too big for even the back seat. And that's just awesome.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Car Shopping

      @Macha
      It's like.... I almost never need it, but when I do, I really need it?

      I live in the mid-Atlantic. With how often we seem to be getting snow these last few years, I would like to say not really, especially being in a major city rather than driving on country roads. That said, I work for an investment management company that doesn't close unless the stock market does and take windy, hilly back roads to work to skirt around the worst of traffic. My neighborhood in Philly is also one of the very last ones to be plowed (fuck you and your 72 window, Mayor Kenney) and there have been times in my poor little Ion that even just getting out of my neighborhood in 4-5" has been a pain, then been perfectly fine once I was on the plowed roads of the next township over. It is really, really obnoxious and why I do not want a RWD car ever again.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Car Shopping

      @Ganymede Yeah, I did a whooooooole lot of research before contacting Costco about their discounts. The Crosstrek is basically just the Impreza with a slightly altered suspension that commands an extra 3.6" of ground clearance, which is better for off-roading (which I do not) and taking shitty East Coast back roads in the snow (which I do). It also commands about an extra $2K-$3K in price, primarily based on the popularity of these raised models. If that's important because of how you're going to use the car? Worth it. If you're going to be driving around Houston or something in it, save your money and just get the Impreza.

      The CX-5 can be snapped up with 4WD as an additional option on some of the lower trims, as well as some of the shiny features that come in the higher trims being available as an add-on package that costs significantly less than moving up a trim level. The difference between the Touring and the Grand Touring is about $3K, but you can get the preferred package added onto the Touring for about $1600, making the primary difference basically.... do you want LED foglights? At least, that's as far as I can tell.

      Both have very good ratings on reliability from Consumer Reports and, believe it or not, their rankings for size and driveability (why is this a word?!) are almost identical. The Crosstrek loses a point in driver seat position, but has better visibility. Should room is different by half an inch in both front and back. Head room by an inch to an inch and a half (and I'm 5'3", so I only care for the sake of my husband). Leg room in the rear seat of the Crosstrek is actually two inches better. Their trunks have a difference of.... three cubic feet. (Compare this to, say, the Hyundai Kona, which they rate in the same class as the Crosstrek. It has 8 less cubic feet than the Crosstrek and ten less than the CX-5. The Crosstrek is weird and lives kind of between a compact SUV and a subcompact SUV, which is kind of one of the things I like, being a city-dweller who often has to parallel park.) The Crosstrek actually gets better tested gas mileage, weirdly enough. The CX-5 has slightly better safety ratings (by like, one star, and even those are four star ratings).

      The thing is, all of that is stuff that's on the books. I can -- and have -- read until I'm blue in the face. I've lived with neither vehicle, and will be changing from a 2007 four-door coupe. It's a big change, and what I'm mostly interested in are all the weird, finicky little details you notice over the long-term life of the car. 'Cause obviously, I drive my cars until they're on their very last legs. (Almost-RIP, Lucille. You've been a great little machine.)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • Car Shopping

      Do have either a Subaru Crosstrek or a Mazda CX-5?

      Do you love your car to the point that small children shout "Well, why don't you just go marry it then?!?" tauntingly at you? Do you want to set that piece of shit on fire on the daily?

      Curious minds (aka, me and insomniac) want to know.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good TV

      @Wretched said in Good TV:

      @Ganymede The one that follows is excellent too. But different yes.

      I was fortunate enough to see Douglas, the follow up to Nanette, live when she was touring with it about a year ago.

      Both are absolutely brilliant and wonderful, albeit in very different ways. I strongly recommend being in a very particular frame of mind if you watch Nanette, though, because.... well, calling it "powerful" is very cliche. But it is powerful, and you're going to have a whole mess of feels, and it's honestly going to break comedy for you for awhile after.

      I legit could not watch any stand-up for about two months afterwards, because every time I did, I would just sit there deconstructing the joke and trying to decide whether or not I wanted to engage with their sort of storytelling, whether I found it humane or not. I actually still haven't ever finished Donald Glover's Netflix special because of how strong my aversion was trying to watch it about two weeks after seeing Nanette.

      And the thing is, that's not a complaint. It's a testament to how affecting I found her show.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @GreenFlashlight said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      Don't let your kids read the Bible.

      I raised with a Bible that is widely considered to be badly mistranslated for the ease and convenience of the reader, which in the case of the religious schools I was forced to attend, included a whole lot of hypocritical evangelicals.

      Unfortunately for them, I actually did read it. The whole thing. More than once. And now can quote it back to them at unpleasant times. It's great fun!

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Critters!

      Today, @insomniac7809 and I nabbed a loose doggo after some people kept him from getting hit by a car while running around on a very busy road in West Philly .

      Four hours later, this pibble goofus has been to the vet, got good meds for some stuff they found while scanning him, and is happily at home with his very worried dog-dad.

      Microchip your pets, folks, and keep that registration updated. Things could've gone a lot worse for Muggzie today.

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @JinShei said in Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.:

      @Tinuviel I literally could do this!

      Coming to you now from Estate Road 2, where three families have converged on the side of the street to have a barbeque and let their children play on a bouncy castle, despite the perils of COVID-19. Today, on the JinShei Show, we ask, do people really dislike their kids and friends this much? Should we just let them all catch this and die?

      I mean, this absolutely horrible to admit and, like, probably the 837th reason I'm going to hell....

      But every now and then, I look at someone doing something really, really obviously stupid that they have publicly, loudly, repeatedly been warned against re: COVID and I think to myself, "....Maybe this one is actually doing us all a favor and we just don't realize it yet."

      Then I remember everyone else they're putting at risk and get pissed off again.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: RL Anger

      @HelloProject Yeah, I don't have any practical tips whatsoever on how to deal with that besides maybe checking out this link with general guidelines and state-by-state contact info? But....

      It is super not okay. This is a person who had access to you during a particularly vulnerable state and the ability to take advantage of the power dynamic that results from the patient-therapist relationship. The fact that he waited until exactly when it would no longer be illegal to contact you does not speak to any sort of respect for reasonable boundaries. It speaks to knowing exactly where the line is, deliberately manipulating that professional knowledge to cover his own ass, and putting in the advanced planning to get away with it.

      That is straight up predatory behavior. Do not, under any circumstances, let any make your question your squicked-out feelings right now. Your gut is 100% right.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Random funny

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    • RE: RL things I love

      So I said this to him after his first two posts about Candyman over in the movies and review thread. And he's probably going to be really embarrassed at me bragging on his behalf, but fuck that.

      I've been with my husband since 2008. When you've been with someone for a long time, it can be really, really easy to just slide into the boring practicalities of every day living and completely forget the things that you adored about that person to begin with. Those posts were a pleasant reminder.

      My guy is really smart, y'all. And insightful. And very good about not only respecting other people's perspectives, but considering them. And moreover, wanting to see and hear them.

      I lucked out.

      (And now you can start with your eyerolls and gagging sounds, you cynical shits.)

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @Rinel You can also charge for stories on Wattpad! Most of the ones I've seen have, depending on length, included 3-6 chapters for free and then charged using their site-based coin system thing for each chapter thereafter. Or if you like it enough, you can pay in bulk to unlock the whole thing.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      @Rinel said in Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff:

      ETA: speaking of people not seeing stuff. Swimsuits. While transitioning. Oh my gosh the unrelenting horror

      Swimsuits designed specifically for trans folks and other non-binary types in various stages of "out"-ness.

      I, personally, am just a fat woman who hasn't been okay wearing a bathing suit in almost twenty years, so I definitely feel some of your cringe albeit for totally different "I am not comfortable with my body and the way people are going to stare at me" reasons. You have my support. ❤ ❤

      ETA: There's also some stuff on Etsy that (not trying to be rude or assume to much or be all up in your bizniz) includes bottoms designed specifically for transwomen and also this article with some general advice on shopping.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      Okay, I actually think the car parades with all of the honking for the kids who missed their graduations are super cute and really love them.

      But why -- FFS, why -- do the ones on my block somehow only ever seem to be scheduled for when I have a raging migraine? This is the third time.

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Good or New Movies Review

      @Ifrit said in Good or New Movies Review:

      @Roz said in Good or New Movies Review:

      Animorphs movie?!?!?!?!

      What year is it

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      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Health and Wealth and GrownUp Stuff

      Yay, not-cancer!

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      @TNP If y'all want to start naming shit Optimus Prime High School instead, I'm honestly sort of fine with that. Especially in comparison.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Real World Peeves, Disgruntlement, and Irks.

      Setting aside all arguments about what the Confederate flag does or does not represent (racism, guys, the answer here is totally racism).....

      <deeeeeeeeeeeeep breath>

      Bitch, you're from Pennsylvania. So are your parents, your parents' parents, and their parents. Pennsylvania is north of the Mason-Dixon line. Pennsylvania was a Union state. A critical Union state. Your Civil War "heritage" is the Confederacy occupied York, we got all kinds of worked up about them bringing their shit up here, and less than a month later kicked their asses right back down to Dixie.

      Put that on your fucking Facebook page, Christina.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: Critters!

      @Packrat said in Critters!:

      Here is the cuter of my two cats, looking cute. She has spent the last three months during lockdown mostly following me around or sleeping next to me but is apparently terrified of all other humans.

      I mean, "screw people except this one that I like" is generally a sentiment I can get behind.

      posted in Tastes Less Game'y
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    • RE: It's where you putcher weed ...

      @SilentHills said in It's where you putcher weed ...:

      Can you actually smoke yourself retarded? Are past over the top pothead portrayals accurate? What is life?

      Like, permanently? No. Definitely not. And most highs aren't going to be anywhere near that, so these portrayals are, for the most part, grossly inaccurate.

      With that said, I also lived with dealers in college and smoked on a daily or near-daily basis as a result, so I had a fairly high tolerance. And even so, there was one particular night when I managed to get high enough that all I could do was sit on the couch with my head flopped back against the cushions, because holding it up was entirely too much to expect of me. At that point, I was actively expending effort not to drool on myself.

      Getting that fucked up takes a good deal of time, effort, and very strong pot. It's definitely possible! I also don't recommend it.

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