@darinelle said in The limits of IC/OOC responsibility:
@surreality said in The limits of IC/OOC responsibility:
@darinelle This.
This is absolutely a thing that happens, and it is maddening.
"That is clearly not the author's intent!!!"
"I am the author. You're wrong."
"I'm not wrong!" <continues making the same argument, usually with 'you're just changing it then because... ' accusation, the low-hanging fruit of this logic>
This is the reason I buy vodka, in a nutshell.
That I have never broken down and just trolled anyone pulling the 'not the author's intent' card when I am the author with, "What do you think the intent was?" "Really? Interesting!" and instead go with, "How can I make this more clear so this misunderstanding does not recur? Is there something you think would help clarify here?" is one of the hardest tidbits of integrity to hang on to, some days.
Sometimes I just let them misunderstand, because they're not going to hear me and any attempts I've made require more access to information they don't have. From a GM perspective, they can be wrong and misunderstand ICly and that's ok, and OOCly they're not hearing me so... they're just ICly wrong and maybe one day they'll realize it and maybe one day they won't but the setting is the setting is the setting, regardless.
The fact you're trying to help as staff rather than gaslight the shit out of them speaks to your favor, at any rate.