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lightning mcqueen

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@Alamias Bless

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Coke

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@Auspice sheriff

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Spell

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@surreality Kindergarten cop

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pounce

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@Selira

The target ones are also very very long, so if your window isn't too big, you could easily cut them in half. When my husband worked nights we literally stapled the curtains to the wall/one another so that as little light as possible could get through during the day. If it's hot outside you're not opening your windows anyway!

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@Bad-at-Lurking

me too

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Mostly I'm just sad.

My grandfather has dementia and Parkinson's and over the last two years has gone from the smartest most active person in the world to barely being able to function. My grandmother has never been much of the nurturing sort, not a bash against her, she just isn't, and so she has struggled to adapt to being a caretaker. It has come to a head though where she isn't doing what needs to be done for him (more regular care takers, avoiding driving, taking time for HERSELF). Long story short, my father is now having to look for ways to get her declared incompetent to care for him so that she doesn't do something though negligence that is going to really hurt him. My heart just absolutely aches. Grandma is the kind of person that doesn't forgive easily and there is a good chance that if dad succeeds that she will never forgive him before she dies. Dad is her only kid she still has close ties with because of other things that happened in the past.